I will be getting married soon and I'm depressed. It's not because that I'm getting married, it's because none of my family will be here. I've offered to get my mother here, my father and I were never close so that doesn't bother me. My mom wants nothing to do with my wedding. I understand it's a few hundred miles from her, but I've offered to get her here and keep her comfortable. My aunt has offered to get her here as well as she'd come also. Her latest words to me were she didn't give a damn about this wedding. That came after I suggested we get married here, then have a 2nd reception in my hometown for friends and family who couldn't make it. She was completely against that too, saying she didn't want to be around no body. I'm just sick to my gut. I was watching "Say Yes to the Dress" tonight and just bawled as they were sharing the joys with the mothers. How do I get over this slump?