Hi :) I was just curious how long some of you were married before you planned your babies. No offense to.surprises or unplanned but I'm looking for some insight on how long you waited to have a baby 100% planned. My fiance and I have been together for almost 2 years. Known eachother and dated on off for 13 years. Recently been skimming the idea of kids ( he already has a teenage suprise shes 8 n a great dad n I love my soon to be SD) but I'm certainly in no rush I'm only 27. Just curious when did you know you were ready?