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PPL THINK I'M A HOLIDAY INN!

Anonymous
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Right after I kicked my bf out ppl started living with me the first was a single mom and her four kids, didn't work out b/c her filthy children were disgusting and she moved her ex husband after i said no. she and i were friends for six years now she doesn't talk me because she says i was selfish! Then my gay guy friend who ended up stealing from me doing drugs in my house, and being another ungrateful jerk, also no longer friends and his shit is still in my house four months later. The only reason i let either move in was because they both had been evicted and put out by their own family.  I own my 3 bedroom home its just me and ds (3weeks) I have two extra bedrooms. Now ds's aunt (paternal) and her daughter wants to move in with me b/c her lease is up and she can't afford a new place she also has cancer and is currently undergoing weekly chemo treatments. i feel bad for her, but i want my damn house back! Every Time I let someone in they stab me in the back! Not to mention I just want some damn privacy and time to bond with my son. But also I feel like a bitch for not helping . WHAT SHOULD I DO ??

Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 18, 2012 at 1:57 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Aug. 18, 2012 at 1:57 PM

BUMP

AJB163
by on Aug. 18, 2012 at 1:58 PM
Stop saying yes to people. That's a good start.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Aug. 18, 2012 at 1:58 PM

BUMP

The_Doodle
by Platinum Member on Aug. 18, 2012 at 1:58 PM

Tell them no. If you feel the need to tell them a reason (even though you don't need to), tell them you keep getting screwed over by visitors and you want time to yourself.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Aug. 18, 2012 at 2:00 PM

I'm working on not being a pushover  

Quoting AJB163:

Stop saying yes to people. That's a good start.

 

AJB163
by on Aug. 18, 2012 at 2:01 PM
Working on that aspect shouldn't take time... During that time people still take advantage... Just stand up and say no.

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm working on not being a pushover  


Quoting AJB163:

Stop saying yes to people. That's a good start.

 

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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Aug. 18, 2012 at 2:06 PM

 I just hope she respects my decision and this doesn't have a negative impact on our friendship.

Quoting AJB163:

Working on that aspect shouldn't take time... During that time people still take advantage... Just stand up and say no.

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm working on not being a pushover  


Quoting AJB163:

Stop saying yes to people. That's a good start.

 

 

coleysmama
by Gold Member on Aug. 18, 2012 at 2:08 PM
Stop allowing it and surround yourself with a higher quality of people.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Aug. 18, 2012 at 2:11 PM

 I kicked all the bums to the curb, but shes family.

Quoting coleysmama:

Stop allowing it and surround yourself with a higher quality of people.

 

hddcooper
by on Aug. 18, 2012 at 2:15 PM
Sometimes it sux to have a good heart :-)
I use to be the same way, I wanted to help/ save everyone. Have let numerous people live with us and it has never ended well. We now just have a " no one lives with us " rule.
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