BACK STORY.... I found out December 29th that I was pregnant by my ex whom I was with for a year prior. I told him I was pregnant and he was happy at first so we "tried" to work things out for the baby. Not long after he let it out he wanted me to abort becauae he already had a 3yr old daughter and was not financialy stable. I refused and in following days found out he was talking to another woman. I got fed up with being treated like crap so I left. I kept intouch with him untill the end of February with doctors appointments he never attended and test results. I gave up all effort when I asked for my furniture back and he refused so him and his new girlfriend and her kids could live up on it. I decided that I didnt need the constant arguing and stress so I changed my number and blocked him and his friends from facebook. I met my now fiance in march. He knew I was already pregnant and was fine with it. He has stood by my side through everything. Has been to each and every doctors appointment. Was in the hospital by my side when I was hospitalized do to complications. Has helped me get everything my son needs. And has taken on the full resposability of wanting to be the father of my child both legaly and emotionaly. He asked months ago if he could sign the birth certificate but I needed time to think about it. I made my decision that he would sign it and my son would have his last name. I have not hurd from my sons BF at all during this time. Wednesday his girlfriend contacted me via email asking how I was doing and blah blah blah. I just simply told her to never contact me again. I guess my question is ... With my fiance signing the birth certificate when my son is born doesnt that give him all legal rights as the father leaving my ex with no rights unless he takes me to court to prove my son is his? And also can I get in trouble for allowing my fiance to sign the birth certificate knowing he is not.the bio father?
on Aug. 18, 2012 at 8:33 PM