It makes me sick *VENT*
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My ex-husband who recently got out of jail just keeps pissing me off!
He got out in June has only called once and messaged me on FB once, and he only asked about the kids in our FB convo because I brought them up. My kids are 2 and 4 and they haven't seen him in over 2 years. He knows that if he sees them it would be for an hour or two a couple days a week till the kids get use to him again, the kids don't know him it wouldn't be smart to just let him take them for a night. He hasn't even asked. Ok fine, his choice and the kids will know the truth when they are older I will not lie to them. Now his girl friend thinks he shouldn't have to pay child support because he was in prison for 2 years, but CSE has gone looking for him and found him because he is on probation. Now he won't even go looking for a job. He makes me sick! What happened to the guy I dated 5 years ago and married, he was soo sweet and wanted kids now look at what happened.
I'll just keep doing what I'm doing, giving my kids the best life that I can, with or without him.
Its his loss. Continue to do what you are doing and let him face the fact his children despise him when they are adults.
As far as I know he should but I talked to a mutual friend and she told me all this stuff about his girlfriend and how he isn't going to get a job. It's his choice, he has $14,000+ in fines and court costs to pay and he isn't even doing that. i doubt he has seen in PO since he has been out.
Quoting Anonymous:If he's on probation doesn't he have to get a job, when my brother was on probation he had to go get a job or they would have put him in jail.
It doesn't help you cs wise but i'm pretty sure if he keeps up that way he will be going back to jail fairly quick!
Quoting Anonymous:As far as I know he should but I talked to a mutual friend and she told me all this stuff about his girlfriend and how he isn't going to get a job. It's his choice, he has $14,000+ in fines and court costs to pay and he isn't even doing that. i doubt he has seen in PO since he has been out.
Quoting Anonymous:If he's on probation doesn't he have to get a job, when my brother was on probation he had to go get a job or they would have put him in jail.
And that's fine with me less drama, lol.
Quoting Anonymous:It doesn't help you cs wise but i'm pretty sure if he keeps up that way he will be going back to jail fairly quick!
Quoting Anonymous:As far as I know he should but I talked to a mutual friend and she told me all this stuff about his girlfriend and how he isn't going to get a job. It's his choice, he has $14,000+ in fines and court costs to pay and he isn't even doing that. i doubt he has seen in PO since he has been out.
Quoting Anonymous:If he's on probation doesn't he have to get a job, when my brother was on probation he had to go get a job or they would have put him in jail.
I think my husband's a sociopath
Oh God I HATE Asking for this stuff! I didn't do it with ANY of my other 3 pregnancies! Did I ask too much?