I dont use b/c i just give my kids up for adoption.

[Anonymous]

I have given 5 up in the past. My youngest when i was only 14 due to rape. I knew i could not get an abortion and did what was best for the child. Gave it up closed the padoption. Ever since i dont even use b/c because i am very fertile and imo its best to give a child to those women/ couples that cant have their own kids. Its so nice seeing these couples finally get their own little angel. I dont have a problem giving the kids up because i know im doing a good thing. I know i will go to heaven one day and God will thank me for giving others a gift. I am now 29 and dont have any of my own buy my SO has a son. Im not sure if i should tell him of my past because im afraid he will judge me and want to leave me, what should i do?

[epoh]

O.o

[Pnukey]

Sure, I totally believe this.

[afsfym00]

You have kids just so you can give them up? Smh.

[Peaceful.chaos]

I think all relationships should start with honesty.

[wkukid]

Um there are too many kids in the system now, this wasn't really a good idea.

[Anonymous]

Tell him. It's commendable. You could go about it in a neater manner but you're going a good thing. If your so doesn't agree with it maybe he isn't the one for you.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

* sorry about the errors im on mobile

[singlemom1208]

This!

I think it's great to give that gift, but why no bc?

Quoting Peaceful.chaos:

I think all relationships should start with honesty.

[Thelmama]

I am not sure what to say.  If he really loves you, he willnot care about your past. How many have you had and given away? Also, are you willing to raise a child with him? Or would you give that baby away? He should have some say in that. 

Otherwise I am speechless, no offense, but I couuld not have babies just to give them away.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

But they dont go to foster care. I make sure they go to a nice couple!

Quoting wkukid:

Um there are too many kids in the system now, this wasn't really a good idea.