Omg. what am i gonna do Edit added
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My dd is almost 13. Lately she has been acting weird. She cries a lot and has been spending alot of time in her bedroom. And shes been sick the last few days. She says her stomach is upset but she doesnt have a fever or anything. Shes also been talking to her bf on her phone alot more, but when I go in her room she hangs up real quick. What's wring with my baby girl? His do I get her to talk to me?
I dont know what y'alls problem is. Why is everyone telling me im a bad mom? If shes pregnant ill raise the baby. Isnt that better than her having an abortion and killing the baby? I want a baby, she might have a baby. Win win right?
Ive always been the type where notes or writin was easiest way of communication for me. Face to face is not my thing.
Quoting Anonymous:
Ive known him forever. Theyre about the same mature wise. So I didnt think it would be a big deal. I thought I could trust him.
Quoting Torihoney5njn:
Let me get this straight- she's almost 13 and her bf is 17? Freaking pederast. That's not ok- why would you think a guy who is 17 would not be trying to get on your CHILD?
Quoting Anonymous:
17.
Quoting momo3fgr8tteens:How old is her boyfriend?
Quoting Anonymous:
That's why I said I would raise it. If shes pregnant she need to have the baby so she knows not to do this again. Plus I dont want to kill the baby. Her boyfriend will have to get a job.
Quoting Anonymous:
She can have an abortion! A 13 year old has no business having children? Plus the boyfriend? How the hell is he supposed to be a father. Unless your kid can get a job, a car & stand on her own 2 feet, she has no business being a mother. Unless you can support the life you created emotionally & financially, you don't need to be a parent. You made it when you were a mother at 16, but your child is only 13.
Quoting Anonymous:
Why not? She cant raise it and I cant have any more babies. If shes pregnant what else should I do?
Quoting Anonymous:
WTF? Why are you even considering letting your 13 year old CHILD have a baby? You're only 29. If you're that desperate to for a baby have one yourself or adopt one. Thats crazy you would even consider letting a 13 year old have a child just to give it to you.
Quoting Anonymous:
Uh no. Im 29.
Quoting Buggy979:
Lol you must be 13..
Quoting Anonymous:
I didnt want her to at first. But she said all her friends were allowed. She promised me she wasnt having sex. If shes pregnant do you think she will give the baby to me? I always wanted another one but never got pregnant after her.
Quoting Buggy979:
First of all why does she have a boyfriend? That is your first red flag...
Second red flag is she may have done the deed.
Third red flag, pregnant...
If you are indeed a REAL mother, I have no words. Because NO mother would be okay with this and then say "I am keeping the baby". Something stinks like yesterday's diapers. NO read that NO real mother would have this conversation with their 13 year old and let them walk out to meet the 17 year old "boy friend". This is messed up on so many levels. If this is REAL......GROW up and smell the coffee and be a PARENT. CALL the police and have her picked up. This is insanity.
Quoting Anonymous:
Okay. So I asked her if she is pregnant and she told me to leave her alone. I told her if she is I am keeping the baby. She told me I am a bad mom and left to meet her boyfriend.
I haven't read any of the replies so this may have been said..
I would try to talk to her again, ask her if there is a chance that she could be pregnant. Reading what you said about her hanging up when you walk in, sick, cries.. it sounds like she could be pregnant and is scared to come to you. I think you should go to her.
Make sure that you don't show that you're angry, if you do, she won't trust you and won't want to open up to you.
Really??
That reply makes me think that post is a troll post. If not.... wow
Her giving you the baby show NOT be what you are thinking about. What you SHOULD be thinking about is SOMETHING IS GOING ON WITH YOUR BABY!!!!! TALK TO HER!!!
You can't control the one you have now.. you really think you need another one??
Quoting Anonymous:
I didnt want her to at first. But she said all her friends were allowed. She promised me she wasnt having sex. If shes pregnant do you think she will give the baby to me? I always wanted another one but never got pregnant after her.
Quoting Buggy979:
First of all why does she have a boyfriend? That is your first red flag...
Second red flag is she may have done the deed.
Third red flag, pregnant...
Are you from this planet? Teenagers lie ALL the time.. you're naive if you think otherwise.
Quoting Anonymous:
My daughter is not a liar.
Quoting KaroGreenly:
Yeah...and teenagers don't lie. Ever.
Quoting Anonymous:
She promised me she wasnt having sex.
Quoting lovexroads88:
you makw her pee on a pregnancy test & talk after.
Apple don't fall too far, now, does it??
Quoting Anonymous:
Uh no. Im 29.
Quoting Buggy979:
Lol you must be 13..
Quoting Anonymous:
I didnt want her to at first. But she said all her friends were allowed. She promised me she wasnt having sex. If shes pregnant do you think she will give the baby to me? I always wanted another one but never got pregnant after her.
Quoting Buggy979:
First of all why does she have a boyfriend? That is your first red flag...
Second red flag is she may have done the deed.
Third red flag, pregnant...
Do a Mother/Daughter activity to where it's just you two & talk.
Quoting Anonymous:
She promised me she wasnt having sex.
Quoting lovexroads88:
you makw her pee on a pregnancy test & talk after.
I think my husband's a sociopath