Yeah, I expect you to do it with a f'ing smile on your face!
My husband does one particular thing that irratates me to NO END.
I am a SAHM. He works, a lot. I in no way take for granted all that he does for our family, he works his butt off as a provider.
BUT, am I so friggen out of line to ask for HELP every now and then when he actually IS home? I make sure he gets atleast 8 hours of UNINTERRUPTED SLEEP(something I havent gotten in over 2 years). Does he APPRECIATE it at all? NO. He has NEVER gotten up for a feeding(mostly since I BF), but he has NEVER gotten up in the middle of sleep for the kids. Not that I've asked him to, but he should damn well APPRECIATE that I take on all of that burden and let HIM get all of HIS precious sleep.
What bugs me, is that EVEN THOUGH he gets HIS rest, and time to unwind after HIS job, if I ask him to do ANYTHING with the kids, its an "eye roll" or he huffs and puffs about it, or all of a sudden gets a crummy attitude, like as if he is a child and I am making him clean his room.
I'm with the kids 24/7, NO help from anyone, no daycare, no family help, no anything, so when he is home, and he should DAMN well help me out AND DO IT WITH A FRIGGEN SMILE!