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Anonymous
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My brother is living with a crazy woman who threatens to kill herself if he kicks her out.  My 10 year old niece is there every other week for the full week and the other time she is with her mom.  Apparently the gf is extremely violent.  I don't know what to tell my brother! He doesn't know how to get the gf out.   Please no bashing. 

Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 22, 2012 at 11:32 PM
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Starburst72
by on Aug. 22, 2012 at 11:41 PM

i swear to god sassy i am gonna reach through this monitor

Quoting Sassy762:

You weren't in this post when I started replying.......PFFTTTT

Quoting Starburst72:

if he wont stand his ground and you witness violence you need to call and report it

he can talk to the local police about how to get her removed the safest and fastetdy



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Peaceful.chaos
by Gold Member on Aug. 22, 2012 at 11:45 PM
I hate to say this but maybe he shouldn't have his child stay there until that psycho is gone. I had someone threaten that me with and I finally had enough and told him if he wanted go kill himself then it wasn't my fault he couldn't cope with our breakup. He needs to either kick her out or find a place and move out. He has to get past her threats because ultimately he is not responsible for making sure she doesn't commit suicide and it wouldn't be his fault if she did.
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PepperWillow
by Gold Member on Aug. 22, 2012 at 11:46 PM

hehe it's all good. ;)

Quoting Starburst72:

good grief my typos are getting worse, i wouod not have believed it without seeing this. ie ie ie. i meant to say fastest 

Quoting PepperWillow:


Quoting Starburst72:

if he wont stand his ground and you witness violence you need to call and report it

he can talk to the local police about how to get her removed the safest and fastetdy

what does that word mean? lol



LAXmom21
by Gold Member on Aug. 22, 2012 at 11:47 PM
This

Quoting babyboy117:

Call 911 and tell them she is suicidal.
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Sassy762
by on Aug. 22, 2012 at 11:47 PM

Quoting Starburst72:

i swear to god sassy i am gonna reach through this monitor

Quoting Sassy762:

You weren't in this post when I started replying.......PFFTTTT

Quoting Starburst72:

if he wont stand his ground and you witness violence you need to call and report it

he can talk to the local police about how to get her removed the safest and fastetdy




AubreeGrace17
by Platinum Member on Aug. 22, 2012 at 11:50 PM

I would probably file an anonymous report with CPS.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Aug. 23, 2012 at 12:40 AM

I'm thinking of doing that actually Aubree, but I'm waiting to see if my niece goes there next week.  If she does and I suspect anything, I'm calling.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Aug. 23, 2012 at 12:58 AM

BUMPING

nathansmommy331
by Bronze Member on Aug. 23, 2012 at 4:03 AM
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Tell him to call the cops & have her removed & that she is threatening suicide. Trust me he needs to stay away from that kind of crazy! My brother had one of those for about 6+ yrs. tell to to take his dd & RUN!!
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