:( I'm already in a bad mood.

[Anonymous]

So...sometimes Dh is up and out first in the morning, and sometimes it's me.

"Good morning" texts have always been a thing with us, because it makes the other smile.

Today Dh didn't send one on his way to work...

Ok the point. The last couple days have been rough. We're not fighting, but we're not really communicating either. Talking and covering the basics of life politely, just not really talking. The distance between us right now feels crushing. Can't seem to fix it, but THIS didn't help either.

I texted him "No good morning today?"

And got "Seems silly to text you when you're not even awake" as a reply :(

So my current FB status is "Remembers a time when even "silly" had a purpose."

I don't know, I was sad and now we've added me feeling dismissed to the list. Guess I just needed to vent.

 

[WhitleyLyles]

why dont you text him something sweet and make the first move towards putting yourself in a good mood?

[AFWifeNMom]

Do you think your DH will see your fb and get the hint??

[AFWifeNMom]

Yeah text hi something like

"I love you even when you are clueless"

Quoting WhitleyLyles:

why dont you text him something sweet and make the first move towards putting yourself in a good mood?

[rockinmomto2]

DH put distance up between us when he was cheating on me and did asshole things like that. I'm definitely not saying that's what's going on with you, that's just what happened here. Take some time tonight to sit down and talk to him. REALLY talk.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

I know it goes through to his phone, and he'll see it, but I felt immature as soon as I did it. :(

Just needed something, I dunno.

Quoting AFWifeNMom:

Do you think your DH will see your fb and get the hint??

[Anonymous]

Why would you put sayings like that on Facebook about your personal life?

[Anonymous]

Yeah even though you feel this way right now I'd text him first and just express how much you love him and smile. If nothing else you are the bigger person and it will make him feel good :)

[LOLA1966]

Tomorrow morning make it your business and get up before him and talk. Get it out in the open and on the table. Confront it now before it turns into something huge.

But be pleasant, not reactionary. The longer you wait the bigger it gets.

Trust me, this I know. Because one day it gets so big, you stop trying. Then you cease to care. Then you are two people going thru the motions. And it is a terrible place to be with a person you once loved.

[bbygourl27]

let go of the petty stuff. dont hang on to that and make a huge deal...grow and change with the relationship. Do something different instead now. Its obviously getting mundane

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

I think "remembers when even "silly" had a purpose" was a generic enough statement. Coupled with nothing else, it's not very revealing.

Quoting Anonymous:

Why would you put sayings like that on Facebook about your personal life?