I told everyone, but her *update, thank god its over!*
df and i were ttc, we told ONE person who then went and told my mother, my sister, and my EX. i thought i could have trusted her but nope. we decided to put ttc on hold, and then found out we are pregnant. this is df's first so we called and told his family, and then we told everyone else...but her. shes on my fb but everything on my page is pretty much blocked from her. today she found a post that said baby bean.
she has been since calling me every 10 minutes, and when i dont answer texts demanding i call her or text back. df sent her a text saying we were going to tell her when we found out the gender and that we didn't want her drama. we were enjoying a family night to leave us alone. yea shes still calling. so df called and said dont contact us again tonight your harrasing us.
i dont even want to deal with her right now!
eta "she" is a friend who tries to be my sister..
*update* so yesterday i sent her a text explaining how we planned on telling her when we were ready and that i was mad at her for telling my family and ex about ttc when i told her it was a secret. she started to bitch and then said that i needed to give back the dishes and bed she GAVE me. i told her if she wanted them back to go through court. she threatned to send her husband to get the stuff when she knew i was alone. i told her if he shows up the cops will have him removed. this went back and forth for a little bit and df ended up calling the non-emergency line and had a cop come over to get my side of the story and then to talk to her and tell her quit harassing me. in the end my friend finally said our friendship is over.
now my mom is pissed off at me and never even asked on my side of the story. thanks mom!