Do you know ...like really know the exact moment that you realized that you were starting to fall inlove with someone , or that you had pretty deep feelings for them ?
I have been seeing someone for a month ...we talked online / phone for about a month before we met.
So roughly ..two months.
We just ...clicked.
The comfort level was automatically there ...we do not doubt what the other is saying , we do not feel uncomfortable with the other person in any way shape or form.
We are finding it very easy to talk to eachother.
We talk every day ...through text ..and when we do have phone conversations ..they last anywhere between 2-3 hrs on average ...the last phone conversation lasted 4 hrs.
We see eachother every other day.
I had health issue's brought up to me yesterday ...( i either have LS ~a autoimmune skin disease , or HPV..they are not too sure which one is which yet) ..so of course i had to say something to him, and i found myself being so scared that he was going to walk away ....
But he wasn't scared off ...it was the complete opposite.
He found the fact that i had been so honest with him , and the fact that i had seemed so scared to talk to him in fear of losing him .....harder for him to not have more feelings for me..if that makes any sense ?
I was so relieved ....and so happy that he was so understanding and so supportive about everything , and that it didn't seem to change anything between us.
But i found for at least a couple of hours later ..like i had this ....feeling in my chest...an overwhelming feeling ...that wasn't bad , but good.
And i just kept looking at him and thinking ....'wow' ....just 'wow'.
I mean i knew that i was starting to develop some feelings for him ...but tonight it just seemed more overwhelming than i have ever felt before ...
I don't even know what to call it ...my first thought was that i am slowly falling for this guy...and he noticed that something was up , and asked me ...and i did tell him that i know it has only been a month...i pointed out that we both have agreed that it seems much much longer than that, but that i can't be sure ..but i think that my feelings for him were getting deeper ..and that i may slowly be falling in love with him.
Thankfully once again , he did not get scared away ...he even said that what i had said did not bother him in the least...
But i am sitting here now ...at home ...still pondering what was going on with me today, i sat here all day yesterday scared ...crying ..trying to think of how to tell him my news and hoping that he wouldn't run off.
And then when i finally told him ...and he had been so caring ,supportive ...and even found it 'cute' and it affected him a bit that i was so worried about what he would think...the feeling in my chest started ...a feeling that i have never felt so strongly before in my life.
So ...i am wondering , if you ladies can share ....
Do you remember the moment when you realized you were falling inlove ? What it felt like ....what happened to make you realize it ?