I feel no passion at all towards my husband. We've gone through counseling, and he just continues disrespecting me, being dishonest, and talking down to me. He's gotten a lot better, and I can tell that he is trying (usually) but this has been going on for 8 years. I'm tired. I have no sex drive, I feel like I've wasted my life on him, I can't even stand being kissed by him anymore. Is there any coming back from this or are we just done? I don't WANT to get divorced, but I'm not happy... and I've put so much into it with nothing back.... and now that I've just "clicked" out it feels like, NOW he tries, and I just can't see myself getting anywhere happy. We have two kids, and when we're getting along, it's like we're best friends - goofing off, laughing, etc (but still no sex, etc). So I'm torn. Advice?