My sister is fucking stupid. My BIL, has cheated on her, had a sexual internet relationship with a 15 yr old girl, tried to get with ME when my sister went to sleep, he's emotionally and verbally abusive, manipulative, place favoritism with the kids, the list goes on and on. Basically he is a really bad guy. She came and stayed with us a couple days after she found out about the 15 yr old. She went back with the agreement that he gets councling. Did he get any? Nope! She knows all of this is going on, she knows that she deserves better, and I KNOW she knows he will never change. So idk why the fuck she thinks him joining the military is going to fix anything. It wont fix a damn thing. Infact they will be worse off because she wont have her support. I voiced my opinion to her that I think she is making the biggest mistake of her life staying with him. She said ā€¯she wants to see if he will changeā€¯. Seriously? How has she become this naive? If he hasn't changed by now, he never will. She will be trapped. I hate this for her because she is my best friend. Her and her boys deserve better than her fuck up DH, she knows it, but still insists he will change. Ive been in tears today over this. For my own selfish reasons, but also for her. I honestly believe there is no fixing that marriage. He wont let it happen, she is wasting her time.
She is a member of CM, so thats why I'm anon. Its pretty obvious we are sisters, so I want to keep her private.
Sister, if you read this. For fuck sakes. I only sense bad coming from this.