We are in a ridiculous custody battle for my step kids, against the grandparents. Right now, we have split 50/50 custody, pending the end of all these court dates, for the real decision. We live 600 miles apart. The grandparents want us to pay for the kids to get back to them. We paid for them to get here, they need to pay for them to get back.... The custody agreement specifies that we split the costs. Thus, we pay when they come, they pay when they go back.... It is not my problem that they are poor and cant afford it.
Am i wrong for refusing to pay their share? What happens if they cant afford to come get them, is it them that violated the order, or is it us for not returning them??