Im not talking about those 5 min you have to leave the room to cool off, im not talking those times where you are on the toilet, im talking about the CIO method. Babies NEED your affection and comfort! Once they are older it may be different but NEVER let NEWBORN cry it out!
ETA: Not talking about kids over a year! Im mostly talking about newborns. I know a few moms who let their kids scream all night for selfish reasons. They are negligent in other ways as well, but this pisses me off the most. Only because they make it my buisness by TELLING ME ALLLLL ABOUT IT... :(