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A 15 y/o talking to a 21 y/o...

Anonymous
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This is my sis. She's 15 and she's become "best friends" with an older guy that lives a few hrs away from her...my mom knows nothing about it. I don't know what all they talk about but they text and have each other on FB. She says they just good around with each other, but it still concerns me. Should I say something to my mom or even message the guy on FB?
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 25, 2012 at 4:47 PM
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EAzizM
by Erica on Aug. 25, 2012 at 4:51 PM

They arent seeing each other...but she is 15...Idk. Leave the guy alone, if anything, tell your mom.

UxorQuodMatris.
by Ruby Member on Aug. 25, 2012 at 4:52 PM
Tell mom.
My 15 year old would be cut off from the world for that.
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EmmaGlenn20
by Platinum Member on Aug. 25, 2012 at 4:53 PM
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I would tell your mom, just for your sister's safety, so that your mom can keep an eye on the situation. Tell her not to accuse your sister of anything or jump to conclusions. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 25, 2012 at 4:54 PM
I feel the same about it. I don't care if she says they're not dating, It's a guy she doesn't even know in person.


Quoting UxorQuodMatris.:

Tell mom.

My 15 year old would be cut off from the world for that.

HookedDreamer
by on Aug. 25, 2012 at 4:54 PM
If they start talking about meeting, then I'd be concerned. I wouldn't want my 15 year old sister or brother meeting someone that age and my parents know nothing about the friendship
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April620
by Ruby Member on Aug. 25, 2012 at 4:54 PM

I lost my virginity to a 21 yr old when I was 15

MommyFlood
by Gold Member on Aug. 25, 2012 at 4:54 PM
I think I'd do this. It may be innocent but sounds like a slippery slope.

Quoting UxorQuodMatris.:

Tell mom.

My 15 year old would be cut off from the world for that.
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Sarah725
by Member on Aug. 25, 2012 at 4:55 PM

 Yes I would tell.

lonelygirl_72
by Member on Aug. 25, 2012 at 4:55 PM

I have a 15yr old daughter and would want to know.I have my daughter's passwords to everything and if I found a 21 yr old talking to her on FB the acct would be deactivated.This is so wrong.Tell mom.

ltmana
by on Aug. 25, 2012 at 4:55 PM
I Dated a 21 year old when I was 16.

That relationship was a train wreck.
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