Ok not really, but my previous title was getting me nowhere! - I'm really insecure about my weight, etc. After dd turned 1 1/2 I was "ready" to start getting serious about losing but, I was having a very hard time & gave up. After Christmas 2012 I was unable to lose anything no matter what I did. So far I had only lost 10 lbs & then gained about 30 between Thanksgiving & Christmas & I honestly didn't over eat a lot. Then after my sil decided to say there was no way I weighed less than her I am determined to lose this weight & to look darn good! Sure it's immature but, I'm gonna give her something to talk about. She is now on the same birth control I was when I was unable to lose weight & since I've gotten off of mine in March I have dropped 20 lbs!!