I don't understand how women on here say they're never in the mood and never want to have sex. Some women say it has been months or even over a year since they last had sex. I understand things like medical issues, bed rest, etc, but simply because you just don't want it? I just don't get it. I can't imagine being around my DH every day for weeks or months at a time and never once, wanting him to put his dick in me. I want to have sex anyway, but it isn't even always about me. Sometimes it's just hot for me to see HIM want me. For those of you who are always too tired and never feel like it, I guarantee your man isn't happy about it. Men like sex. Men want sex. You know on TV shows when men brag about "getting lucky?" Those jokes are about you. You're the women that are so boring and give it so rarely, that they have to brag about getting it once in awhile. Don't be a boring old hag who leaves your man hanging for weeks or months at a time! Sex isn't what makes a relationship, but it is an important part. Having a healthy sex life is a good thing. Luckily, my DH has a woman who likes it as much as he does! If you don't feel like it sometimes, fine, but if it has been two, three + weeks, do it anyway for HIM.