What I've noticed in my few years on this site with edit
There is a lot of damn e-grudges. Unless that person is pestering the shit out of you and bothering you PRESENTLY get over it!
I am sure there are exceptions but for the most part e-grudges are pretty lame.
ETA: Are you presenting dealing with an e-grudge?
*presently, not present* I am shocked that I didn't catch that. Yikes! I was pretty distracted lol