I stopped giving dh head right in the middle of it!

[Anonymous]

Because I'm sick and tired of not getting satisfied the way he does! We rarely have sex, and when we do it's bad. Him on top, 2 minutes tops, no orgasm for me. He doesn't ever touch me there! He has only gone down once- in 2008! So last night after a couple minutes of doing it, I quit. Rolled over and went to sleep. He was pissed.

[SunshneDaydream]

Acually I'm quite sure any marriage counselor will tell you that sex IS in fact a very important part of a healthy marriage.  Intimacy brings people closer together.  

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting Anonymous:

Oh not around here. On this site lack of sex is grounds for divorce. If you're not giving it you're a selfish bitch and should just leave. If he's not giving it he's cheating and you should leave. Sex is top priority and the most important part of the entire relationship.

Cafemom 101.

[kcangel63]

My DH's grandfather was a "sexpert" (LOL). He wrote a book teaching men how to train their bodies to have multiple orgasms. It's called Any Man Can (William Hartman). Have him read it.

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting Anonymous:

don't hints lead to divorce? Why not just come out and say what you feel. why the games?

We've talked about it. He knows I'd like more. I'd never divorce my husband over bad sex. While the sex sucks, it's not reason for me to leave. I just figured I'd show him what I need rather than keep talking.

[Saille717]

If you've tried talking and gotten nowhere then this seems like an excellent wake up call!

[brittani]

Are we sharing a dh??? I always have to on top I never get off he's done is 2-3 minutes and then doest touch me. It's ok for me to give oral to Jim but he's wont do it to me. I do the same thing I start and then roll over and go to sleep

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Quoting brittani:

Are we sharing a dh??? I always have to on top I never get off he's done is 2-3 minutes and then doest touch me. It's ok for me to give oral to Jim but he's wont do it to me. I do the same thing I start and then roll over and go to sleep

Lol! I'm not married to a Jim, so that's good!

[HeathersForever]

You go girl. Make him suck his own dick

[brittani]

Hahaha stupid smart phone does that all the time drives me nuts. I'm not married to a Jim either. It's suppose to say him lol

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting brittani:

Are we sharing a dh??? I always have to on top I never get off he's done is 2-3 minutes and then doest touch me. It's ok for me to give oral to Jim but he's wont do it to me. I do the same thing I start and then roll over and go to sleep

Lol! I'm not married to a Jim, so that's good!

[LyTe684]

Lol

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Quoting SunshneDaydream:

A bad sex life is a REAL problem in a marriage.  It sounds like you guys need to have a serious discussion about this and figure out how to fix it FAST.  Otherwise, someone is going to cheat, or you will both grow apart.  Sex is SOOO important in marriage!

I totally agree with you. I try to tell him this all the time. He always tells me that marriage isn't all about sex and there are other things for him to focus on. But I know he's just a selfish guy because he doesn't complain when he's getting off. I truly hope I gave him a wake up call cuz I want nothing more than to have a healthy, fun sex life. We'll see.

[SunshneDaydream]

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting SunshneDaydream:

A bad sex life is a REAL problem in a marriage.  It sounds like you guys need to have a serious discussion about this and figure out how to fix it FAST.  Otherwise, someone is going to cheat, or you will both grow apart.  Sex is SOOO important in marriage!

I totally agree with you. I try to tell him this all the time. He always tells me that marriage isn't all about sex and there are other things for him to focus on. But I know he's just a selfish guy because he doesn't complain when he's getting off. I truly hope I gave him a wake up call cuz I want nothing more than to have a healthy, fun sex life. We'll see.

Have a serious discussion and make it clear to him that this is a big issue for you and if he cares about you and the marriage he'll work on it for you.  Find a book or something since I'm sure he'd never agree to talk to a therapist lol!  Maybe even let him get some Playboys or Maxim or something, I think they have articles about sex.