Your child could have deformities from missing digits or limbs, on up to cleft lip or palate or club foot or hand and then told you to wait 4 weeks to "look again" what would you do? I am not FREAKING out but I think about it EVERYDAY. My husband says not to even let it cross my mind as if i am crazy but i feel like i am being normal. I am staying calm but that doesnt mean i just pretend it wasn't said. Btw if it IS what he said its an amniotic band. My next doctors appt isnt until the first but they might bring.me in earlier for an ultrasound. How do I stay patient? What would you do?