Me and DH got married 11 years ago, I was 18 and he was 23 (we had been together for 2 years). We had our first child right away, she was born 2 weeks before our first anniversary. This is what we wanted, we wanted to start a family. We didn't have a LOT of money but DH has always made a good living. We have had 2 more children since and I am pregnant again. We live comfortably but we don't have everything we want. We can't take expensive vacations like SIL does and our home isn't as big and we don't get a new car every year or like she does (something she likes to point out every chance she gets) but we are happy with our lives. My SIL on the other hand has always put us down for not waiting to have kids. Even though we could support ourselves and the kids, she always acts like we are poor and stupid for having children so young. She is 5 years older then DH and has always said that she is waiting to get married and have kids until after she has her career set (and then would always make a comment directed at us). She got married 2 years ago and still hasn't gotten pregnant. Well she told MIL (who of course told everyone else) that the doctor said she missed her window and is too old to have a baby. I know this is kind of wrong but after years of her putting us down for not waiting and now finding out that she waited too long, it kind of makes me want to laugh in her face.