I am in a quandry with myself over my feelings of guilt, wtf, dislike, and love over my grandson who I found out last fall that he was transexaul and would be is going through whatever to change to a female. He/she was started on HRT about the same time and over the summer had his/her name changed to Michelle. Michelle graduated from 8th and has started HS where I live so that his/her transition would not be an issue where Michelle lived with my ds and dil. They asked me to help by letting Michelle live with me while attending HS and help Michelle transition. Michelle started classes abount a week ago. Asked me to treat HER as any other teen girl. I must admit Michelle looks and acts like any other teen girl I have encountered. Michelle turned 15 this past August. Ds and dil took care of the legal things entailed with going through this change and so on. There are days though when Im on pins and needles, in a wtf mood, or loving . I am trying very hard mentor Michelle as I did my dd but sometimes my stupid feelings get in the way. My friends that have met Michelle think I have great granddaughter. Michelle is beautiful person inside and outside, I must admit. Im the one dealing with my personal possibly non existent issues. Has anyone dealt with this.