I'm just trying to make this work but I feel like I'm the only one. Dh over spends and just expects someone to loan us money all the time. He hasn't kept a job for more than a few months since we've been married and wouldn't come home one night so I could go to work so I lost my job and he's been riding me ever since to find another. I finally got one and its a great job. But it still isn't good enough because I won't start until october first. I hoped he would be proud but he still walks around and just says he's unhappy. He's already broken my heart so much that I almost expect it. That doesn't mean I want it. I took vows and it hurts that I seem to be the only one who meant them. I'm sad. He was so sweet when we were first together. And now its just a struggle to get him to smile. He won't go to counseling and he's begun saying some really mean things to me. We were together all day but he never said I love you one time. I want to cry. Ds is just 2 but his outbursts and tantrums make it hard to hear each other talk. I miss him even when he's home.
Just had to get that out. I tried talking to him but he won't talk. When I'm quiet he asks what's wrong then says I'm nagging when I tell him. Its beyond infuriating that I've done everything he ever asked and it still wasn't good enough. He threatens to leave all the time and I guess I should have known.