DD has had symptoms of ADHD for a long time but only in the last year has it really become something of concern.
She has always had trouble making/keeping friends. She is very dramatic, sensitive, hyperactive (at times) and loud. She's always the loudest one. She can be bossy and not even realize it. All of this is not in the "normal girl stuff" range - I mean my girl is on the extreme with these.
She tends to befriend the quiet-but-still-social kids, and sometimes kids that are a year or so younger than her. I think it has to do with the fact that they look up to her because she's more outgoing/older than they are.
She's at a sleepover with her softball team tonight. She almost got into a fight with one girl (they are 9 and younger) and then there was another little squabble. Apparently DD punched a girl in the arm (but not meaning for it to be aggression, kind of jokingly) and it escalated. Anyway, besides the point. I have no clue how to get her to be "normal". Having talks with her does nothing. Trying to teach her how to act around other people does nothing.
She is homeschooled now because she was barely getting by in PS. So it's important that she socialize, but she struggles to fit in.