I just found out I slept with a married man! update- she emailed me back
I found.out because I got bored and looked him up on Facebook. His profile is not private. His wife is all over his fb.
I have been cheated on. My husband cheated on me for seven years with multiple women before I found out.
Ok I decided to send her a message on FB. I feel like I'm going to throw up.
"Sorry for the random message, but something happened a few weeks ago that I feel like you should know about...
I was out at ...... With some friends where I apparently met your husband. He wasn't wearing a ring, and he never mentioned he was married. We ended up having sex. I am sorry. If I would have known he was married I would have never even talked to him. I feel awful. I felt that I had to tell you. My hsuband cheated on me for many years before I found out. If you want to talk please respond, even if you jusy email me back and call me names and yell, if not, I competely understand. Again, I am so
sorry that this happened. You seem like a wonderful women and you deserve someone who will only be with you."
Idk if she will respond or not.. if she does I will update. I think I'm going to go lose my breakfast now.
Wow this got kinda crazy... I am on lunch and checked my fb, no response. Both od their profiles are private now. I have done what I felt was right, so its in their hands now.
To those who are saying I am a troll, just because something hasn't happened to you doesn't mean it can't happen to someone else. I don't know anything about that other post. I'm not going to waste my time looking it up. If it really is her, which I highly doubt it is, then she knows how to contact me.
My fb is private, she has no way wrecking havoc on my life.
I am not a whore. I made a stupid mistake, that I will never do again. I have been with all of four men in my life, my hs bf, my ex husband, and ex bf and this guy. I did not go out looking for him. He approached me and I just figured, why not. I know it was stupid.
I did not do this to be mean or spiteful or pay him back. That is just silly. I have nothing to be mad about. It was some guy I met in a bar for one night. We didn't even exchange phone numbers. I am not mad or bitter.. and I am most def not looking for drama. I'm a full tine single mom with two jobs, I do not have the time or desire for any of that nonsense.
I told her because I felt she deserved to know. What she does with the information is up to her. I know that with my ex I knew he was cheating, but I didn't have proof. I waited until he screwed up and I had proof.
I got an email from the wife yesterday. She said she was sorry for the delay, but she didn't know what to do. She has had suspicions of him, but no proof. So she has been snooping and has a TON of proof against him now. She thanked me for telling her, and she's glad there are still some people with honesty and integrity out there. Her email was very long. But over all, she suspected him for a long time now.