My husband is HUGE on who knows I'm home, who knows I'm alone, if I'm walking somewhere dark, what time I'm outside alone, etc.
He gets so mad when I let people from CL come over to buy things. He runs through these crazy scenarios like "oh, so some big guy comes over, shoves you in the house, and rapes you, then what? You won't even have time to get the gun!" Or when I walk down the road at night to see a friend, he makes sure I'm carrying a weapon and he makes me promise to call when I get there. And if he goes out of town, he makes sure his guy friends know I'm here by myself and never posts it on FB or anything like that.
He's super overprotective. He's the same way with the kids. He's never let anyone watch them other than my mom and sister, won't let them ride a bus, won't let them out of his sight when we're out, hates that I let them roam free around the yard (it's kind of hidden around the corner of the house). It's not a controlling thing, I do what I want. He doesn't get mad at me if I do things he doesn't like, he just doesn't like them and I feel like I can see an ulcer forming when I go be my wild self. lol He's just soooo paranoid!
Are any other husbands out there like that? I feel like a porcelain doll around him sometimes! I'm flattered to a point, but sometimes I feel like he really needs to loosen up.