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My son hasn't met his sister yet....

Anonymous
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She will be a year this week and my son lives with my mom because she lied about him getting taken away if Social Services were to be called so she forcefully made me give him to her. I wanna make a "date" with my son and take him out to eat with my husband daughter and I. I am afraid my mom will say no because she doesn't like my husband and the fact he is black. So most likely she will say no. She always says no when I ask if I can take him one weekend but I always am gonna push to take him places with my daughter and husband no matter how pissed off I get for her saying no. What would you do? I have no money to take her to court because court fees here are expensive and I have to buy my daughter clothes and all her must needs for the upcoming events. So I was wondering what would you do if you were in my situation? 


I don't need any bashing so if your gonna say negative comments just get out of this post please.

My mom is not aloud to see my daughter because she called my husband a N word on his phone and has yet to apologize for it. In fact, My side of the family all of them are not aloud to meet her because there are drug attics child molesters and drunks. so that is why my son has not met her. He has seen pictures of her when I show him on my camera but hasn't met her in person and I don't know if he ever will. 

EDIT: All you "ladies" that think its OK to bash some one when they asked you not to, don't even bother commenting. You guys that bashed me shows what kind of mother you truly are. I feel sorry for your kids because they have grow up and know what kind of bully you guys are. 

Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 23, 2012 at 7:39 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Sep. 23, 2012 at 7:41 PM
Does she have legal custody of him or did she just take him from you!
JenB1983
by Gold Member on Sep. 23, 2012 at 7:41 PM
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This post is so fucked up I don't even know where to start.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Sep. 23, 2012 at 7:41 PM
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Why do you not take her to court?
Pnukey
by Platinum Member on Sep. 23, 2012 at 7:42 PM

Why is your mom good enough for your son but not your daughter? I'm so very confused.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Sep. 23, 2012 at 7:43 PM
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Wtf... I never understand how people can actually give away their kids and NOT see them...
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Sep. 23, 2012 at 7:43 PM
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If you didn't want negative comments you shouldn't have posted,  I always think badly of mothers who lose custody of their kids!

dee06
by Bronze Member on Sep. 23, 2012 at 7:44 PM
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I would get over your husband being called names and make peace with your mom so your son and daughter can have a relationship. This situation isn't fair to the kids

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Sep. 23, 2012 at 7:44 PM
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And why do you allow your son with a bunch of drug addicts and CHILD MOLESTERS?!?
jessecutez
by Silver Member on Sep. 23, 2012 at 7:45 PM
I would save money, downsize if u had to but I would have taken a bitch to court once I got custody I would move out of state !
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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Sep. 23, 2012 at 7:45 PM

She has legal Guardianship because she lied to the courts saying I never was home (I was at school) That I was on all these drugs (the only drug I did was weed and that was before he was even inside me growing) The judge didn't want to test me because he believed my mom so much that he thought it wasn't worth drug testing. He was ignorant.

Quoting Anonymous:

Does she have legal custody of him or did she just take him from you!


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