DH asked if I mind if he goes camping with a coworker. I said yes, now I don't know . Update
He asked a group of friends that he works with if anyone was interested in going. A woman coworker said that she would like to go. She has never been camping and he really wants to go. I can't go so he wondered if I minded if he found someone that wants to. She did. I trust him. He was very upfront and honest about it. It does bother me a little though.
I stopped reading the replies because DH came up behind me and I went off to bed with him. I was surprised how many there were when I came back. I want to make clear, my apprehension has nothing to do with worry that he will have sex with her. It has more to with my own jealousy that another woman will be spending time with him. I don't think that every man makes decisions with their dick before their brain and heart. I believe him when he says that they are just friends. He has never give me any reason to doubt him. He asked a table full of people if they were interested in going camping next weekend and nobody could or felt like it besides her. He complained at a cookout last weekend that nobody wanted to go camping and a mutual woman fried piped up and said she would go. We laughed because we knew she wouldn't. She was drunk when she said she would. I would have been perfectly FINE with him going with her. I know that she has no ulterior motive. I don't know if this other woman just has interest in my husband. I don't think it will get her anywhere. It would just make me want to smack her in the head. lol There were a couple of questions in the replies that I might as well answer here. The campground is four hours away. He has a glass of red wine every night but doesn't get drunk. He actually did let me go away for two days with a guy friend many years ago. He was, and is, a close friend that I have known since I was a small child. We stayed at a hotel together. I never made a move on him and he never made a move on me and this was back when I was attractive.
This post was made a long time ago. A lot of people ripped me up for trusting him. They stayed one night, had a great time, spent most of the time hiking, and that was it. He mentioned last night that she wants to get a whole group of people, and thier families, from work together and all go. So, nothing ever came of it. I guess I was right to trust him. I did find out later that DH's best friend gave him hell for going. He told him that he was damn lucky that he was married to me because his wife would never tolerate that.