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But if I hit EVER hit a man I would damn well expect them  to hit me back. Women need to stop abusing men then running off crying to the cops when the man gets fed up and knocks them on their asses. (I am not saying violence is OK but I am saying people have a right to defend themselves no matter the sex of the people involved.) equality does NOT mean we can walk all over men!

Raising 5 kids and married to a Richard!

Desirey 11/03     Xzavier 4/05   Donald 2/06  Dylan 12/08   Arlo 12/10


by on Sep. 24, 2012 at 11:01 AM
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gypsy_rose
by Kandy on Sep. 24, 2012 at 11:17 AM

My hubbies ex used to beat on him. He would only shove her away from him or try to restrain her. The kids told me ALL about the shit they have seen. :( like when "mommy" was smashing him into a wall. 

Quoting slashteddy:

This reminds me of a post I saw a little while back where a CMer had been physically and verbally abusing her husband for over a year, then he got drunk recently and she came at him and he threw her into a wall... her friend was all freaking out like "omg you need to leave him, he's an abusive douche, you should call the cops." People called her out on being an abuser and her first response was something like "Well he's stronger than me anyways." Then she got mad she was getting bashed and deleted the post.

Men can be abuse victims, too.


Raising 5 kids and married to a Richard!

Desirey 11/03     Xzavier 4/05   Donald 2/06  Dylan 12/08   Arlo 12/10


JDmommyJD
by the sauce is boss on Sep. 24, 2012 at 11:17 AM

 Not my man.. And not alot of other REAL men.. And enough times as in on enough occasions? Then he should nto be with that woman. As in steady over and over in one scene, he should restrain her. If shes gone bat shit crazy call the police. Leave. Lock yourself in a room. There a million things he could do.

Quoting Anonymous:

BS. If a man gets hit enough times and is fed up completely, he will hit back. That is how things work and women should NOT be surprised when they get knocked on their asses.

Quoting JDmommyJD:

 100% disagree.


My husbands POV, he is also teaching our son: You NEVER EVER lay your hands on a woman. Only pussys and bitches do that.


true story.

 

.bombshell.
by Bronze Member on Sep. 24, 2012 at 11:18 AM
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Agree.

I honestly don't say "a man should never put his hands on a woman period." Uhm but how come we make it seem like its ok that woman hit men first.
"Oh it doesn't matter if she hit first he shouldn't be touching her"
Ugh its Bs.
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gypsy_rose
by Kandy on Sep. 24, 2012 at 11:18 AM

MN a punch in the wrong spot CAN kill you!

Quoting EAzizM:

It is the same damn thing. One day she might hit him, the next she can come at him with a knife. Should he just let her stab him because he can't defend himself? I don't think so.

Quoting JDmommyJD:

 lmao.. now we are talking about murder? OBVIOUSLY there is a difference.


Quoting gypsy_rose:


so how would you feel iff a woman tried to kill your son and she was a MUCH more skilled fighter than him so he was unable to restrain her? 


Quoting JDmommyJD:


 100% disagree.


My husbands POV, he is also teaching our son: You NEVER EVER lay your hands on a woman. Only pussys and bitches do that.


true story.




 


Raising 5 kids and married to a Richard!

Desirey 11/03     Xzavier 4/05   Donald 2/06  Dylan 12/08   Arlo 12/10


danie24
by Ruby Member on Sep. 24, 2012 at 11:18 AM
I don't know. Men, for the most part, are just so much bigger and stronger than women.

I honestly think any real man, would not hit a woman, even if she hit him first.

If a woman hits a man, it's awful, terrible, stupid, etc. But I think it's 100 times more disgusting if a man hits a woman, even if she hit him first.

If the woman is bigger and stronger and he feels like he needs to protect himself, that's one thing. But if the man is bigger and stronger, it's cowardly and pathetic to hit a woman, no matter how much of a loser/bitch she is and no matter how much she may "deserve it".

Just my opinion.
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TarotMommy
by on Sep. 24, 2012 at 11:18 AM

 I would never condone a man hitting a woman. However, women should not be hitting men either. If a male and female feel the need to hit each other they should avoid each other, period.

 

 

     TarotMommy


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Sep. 24, 2012 at 11:19 AM
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It is easy to say he should leave. Many woman stay with their abusive partners, is it different for men BECAUSE they are men. It is a double standard. And only pussies run and hide, imo.

Quoting JDmommyJD:

 Not my man.. And not alot of other REAL men.. And enough times as in on enough occasions? Then he should nto be with that woman. As in steady over and over in one scene, he should restrain her. If shes gone bat shit crazy call the police. Leave. Lock yourself in a room. There a million things he could do.


Quoting Anonymous:

BS. If a man gets hit enough times and is fed up completely, he will hit back. That is how things work and women should NOT be surprised when they get knocked on their asses.


Quoting JDmommyJD:


 100% disagree.



My husbands POV, he is also teaching our son: You NEVER EVER lay your hands on a woman. Only pussys and bitches do that.



true story.


 

JDmommyJD
by the sauce is boss on Sep. 24, 2012 at 11:20 AM

 Yes, I said never. But again, I said OBVIOUSLY there would be a difference. My son is not an idiot.. hes not gonna lay there and die because hes taught not to hit a woman.. REALLYYYYY trying to go out on a limb arnt ya?

 

Quoting gypsy_rose

Acording to you he NEVER should do it? I know guys that take it to the extreeme they would let the girl kill them rather than hit them. (One of which DID die)

Quoting JDmommyJD:

 lmao.. now we are talking about murder? OBVIOUSLY there is a difference.

Quoting gypsy_rose:

so how would you feel iff a woman tried to kill your son and she was a MUCH more skilled fighter than him so he was unable to restrain her? 

Quoting JDmommyJD:

 100% disagree.

My husbands POV, he is also teaching our son: You NEVER EVER lay your hands on a woman. Only pussys and bitches do that.

true story.

 

 

 

 

Nicoleb9
by Emerald Member on Sep. 24, 2012 at 11:20 AM
AGREED!
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gypsy_rose
by Kandy on Sep. 24, 2012 at 11:20 AM
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Lets say the woman is THIS strong 

Quoting JDmommyJD:

 Not my man.. And not alot of other REAL men.. And enough times as in on enough occasions? Then he should nto be with that woman. As in steady over and over in one scene, he should restrain her. If shes gone bat shit crazy call the police. Leave. Lock yourself in a room. There a million things he could do.

Quoting Anonymous:

BS. If a man gets hit enough times and is fed up completely, he will hit back. That is how things work and women should NOT be surprised when they get knocked on their asses.

Quoting JDmommyJD:

 100% disagree.


My husbands POV, he is also teaching our son: You NEVER EVER lay your hands on a woman. Only pussys and bitches do that.


true story.

 


Raising 5 kids and married to a Richard!

Desirey 11/03     Xzavier 4/05   Donald 2/06  Dylan 12/08   Arlo 12/10


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