BM called my SO last week and said can I take the kids to Disneyland on Thursday. (Thursday is our day). And he said no. She said well I'll just take them on on of my days next week. He said no because they belong in school not because it was our day. They also have next Wednesday off, which he suggested she take them then.
I do the school drop offs in the morning on our days because he works early. She wants me to drop them off at her house on Friday morning instead of school where they are supposed to be. He wants me to take them to school. What would you do?
My personal feelings in the matter; I think they need to be in school. now that they are getting older I think school counts more. SS is already having a hard time and SD is In 6th grade. If it was special occasion or something I'd feel different but he does it at least once a month or she tries to at least. If I drip them at school I'll get a tirade from her saying I should give her her kids whenever she wants. But if I don't I'll hear from him that Im not working at part of his team.
I was leaning toward saying screw her And take them to school. She's not my partner nor my problem. but I am going against her demands, I means wishes and that's a big no no on here so I figured I'd see what some of you had to say.
And no we aren't married.
And when I posted mobile I didn't hit the anon off thing.
She texted me to ask me to talk to him and talk him in to letting them go. She didn't understand. I told her how I felt as well. She called him yelling because I should have no say. Lol. I don't have a say. But she did open contact with me about the subject. I should've just ignored her. Which would've also gotten some kind of I'm being a bitch response. Oh well.