Don't need advice, I'm just tired. Yesterday, my SIL was feeling crummy about the crap that's wrong in her life. So I listened to her talk and I'm glad I did because it's good to vent...HELLO that's what I'm doing on here, isn't it? Ha!
I don't need to talk "tough" or break it down for her. She KNOWS what she needs to do but she either doesn't do anything to fix them or makes the problems worse. Every few months she needs one of these venting sessions, which is fine. It would suck having to go through what's on her plate BUT BUT BUT at the same time, she has brought most of these problems on herself. Don't get me wrong, I feel bad for her situation but it's been years of the same issues and she won't put in the work of fixing her life. So I'm sad for her situation but frustrated/tired by the inaction.