I'm divorcing my husband because he's deploying. EDIT AGAIN
ETA yes, this is a troll post. Some is true some isn't. I'm not divorcing him, we have four kids, I really do own two businesses and rarely use the health care or shop on base, and he did promise he was getting out of the military and I was bawling when he signed again. I really was a single parent to our first and he is nothing but his full father now. I got through a deployment just fine and will again. I have never cheated and would never cheat. And I do know that for me single parenting is way easier in so many ways, including stability, but I suck it up for him.
I know some of the worst people ever that serve yet are alcoholics, beat their wives, and cheat or sneak out to club and get high with a married female while their wife is sleeping and is under so much stress she takes sleeping pills and they are on R&R. Not one of those women wasn't bashed for wanting to leave because their heroic husband serves the country. You can dress a turd in a uniform but it is still a piece of crap. Not all of these men that serve are good and worth waiting for yet people bash the wife for not taking the crap just because the man wears a uniform and goes to war.
This was a spin off but also to prove that many of you jump to conclusions when there is only one line of the intro and you can't bother to see what the whole book is about. I find the judgement disgusting and the telling someone to kill themself deplorable. Thank you to the ones that were supportive. I have gone through a lot that most of you wouldn't understand and I appreciate those that didn't slap a judgement on someone that could be having a hard time. I would be more than happy to chat with those of you that tried to understand.
Second ETA: for the people calling me a whore and wanting my husband to know, my sn is lalaballet. PM me and I will give you info where you can reach him, I am that sure that my marriage is fine and my edit is true.