I can't believe he just left me..... ***NEW UPDATE***
So... we have to be out of our house tomorrow. We were planning to move out of state and it fell through after our landlord rented our house out. We just found out we werent moving out of state a week ago and havn't been able to find a new place to live. I finally found one but dh didn't "approve" even though it was only a month to month. He wen to the ladys house and demanded the money I gave her back... then he came home, threw me the money and took off and said "good luck figuring it all out on your own." This was 6 hours ago. So now im stuck with 2 kids, a whole house to find a storage unit for and to get into a truck, no husband, no help and im freaking out! Im a SAHM!
He just sent me this text message. Guarentee you he was sitting at the back window and heard me talking to his aunt and thinks it was a guy lol.
"my battery flashing cuz its about dead and im cold as hell walking around and im going to stop and check online and if there any number i dont know i put it in computer to check it out and if any guy names come up you can leave all my stuff there and I change my number and i give up rights to the kids and we can get a divorce"
uhhhh ok hun go ahead and check the phone records, the only people ive talked to is YOUR family trying to get help and my friends trying to get help and my parents... now hes threatening giving up rights? wtf!!!
So his aunt came over this morning and had a talk with him. He has a sex offender charge from when he was 18, it was something stupid with his cousin and she said him and his brother did this but they never did, she even dropped charges because she admitted she was lying but the state pressed charges. She has even told me it was a big lie. Well anyway I guess why he gave the keys back was because the place is within 500 feet of a park and he could go back to jail (I didn't know he couldnt live by a park or be at a school!) He left because he was really upset that hes "failed his family" and supposidly said that about the kids because he feels like they deserve better... now i dont know what to do, hes in tears and I dont know what to say to him. He is a damn good dad usually other than this stunt...
Well its completely done with him, I found a lot of holes in his story and when I confronted hiim about them he didn't have anything to say, so I contacted his aunt whome I speak to on occasion and then I went to bed at like 10. Well at 4 this morning I woke up to him backing up his bags saying he was done and I can go find someone who I dont need to be concerned to have the kids around... he drained our account, left me with zero gas, $2 in our account and we JUST SIGNED a year lease on friday and I dont make enough to pay it on my own and I want to go to my moms. I'm wondering if my landlord would give me any money back