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I met my husband while he was still married.

Anonymous
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I was a preschool teacher and I met my future husband when he came to drop off his youngest daughter. He was really sweet and it wasn't long before he and his wife became comfortable enough with me to ask me to babysit.

That went on for a couple years and then I didn't hear from them for a while and they had withdrawn their youngest so the mom could stay home. I just assumed they couldn't afford a babysitter anymore.

One day out of the blue he called me to babysit and told me he and his wife divorced and gave me his new address so I could watch the kids.

It took him a while to muster up the courage to ask me out but I'm glad he did. We've been married 4 years now and we have a 2 year old and we are ttc.
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 2, 2012 at 1:28 AM
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RoseBlossom
by on Oct. 2, 2012 at 1:31 AM
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well, it doesnt count as cheating or infidelity because you dated him after he was already divorced

areyouatroll
by on Oct. 2, 2012 at 1:31 AM
Sweet
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 2, 2012 at 1:32 AM
I know that, I never would've dated him while he was married. I thought he was cute from the moment I met him but he was off limits because he had a ring on his hand.

Quoting RoseBlossom:

well, it doesnt count as cheating or infidelity because you dated him after he was already divorced

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 2, 2012 at 1:33 AM
I think so, never in a million years would I have thought I would meet my future husband at a daycare.

Quoting areyouatroll:

Sweet
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 2, 2012 at 1:44 AM
Bump!
NiceMom06
by Gold Member on Oct. 2, 2012 at 2:00 AM
That's very sweet but just one question. How does his ex treat you?
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kissmiss213
by Platinum Member on Oct. 2, 2012 at 2:02 AM

from the title you make it all scandalous, but it was so innocent really.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 2, 2012 at 10:37 AM
She hates me though I think she would hate me even if I had not met him while they were married.

Quoting NiceMom06:

That's very sweet but just one question. How does his ex treat you?
Momof5kids84
by on Oct. 2, 2012 at 10:40 AM
She's jealous.

Quoting Anonymous:

She hates me though I think she would hate me even if I had not met him while they were married.



Quoting NiceMom06:

That's very sweet but just one question. How does his ex treat you?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 2, 2012 at 10:53 AM
I know and I steer clear of her. It is sad she can't get over it and be an adult but it is what it is.

Quoting Momof5kids84:

She's jealous.



Quoting Anonymous:

She hates me though I think she would hate me even if I had not met him while they were married.





Quoting NiceMom06:

That's very sweet but just one question. How does his ex treat you?
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