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should i worry about this?

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My daughter who is 4 kept digging at her butt .I guess she had an itch.my husband (her dad) grabbed her buttcheecks in a playfull way and said "is your butt itchin" does that sound weird for him to have done that? There was also a time when she was potty training and she kept peeing her pants.so my husband put his hands between her legs and pushed up on her wet diaper so she could feel the wetness.I thought that was a bit too much so I asked him not to do that again.he hasn't.are these things odd to anyonr els?
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 2, 2012 at 8:50 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Oct. 2, 2012 at 8:56 PM

I think you are reading too much into this.

yikesitsmindy
by on Oct. 2, 2012 at 8:56 PM
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Stop watching svu. Everyone is not a pedophile.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Oct. 2, 2012 at 8:56 PM
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No, that's fine. I squeeze my sons' butt all the time. They're so little and cute, lol.

It's not like she's 15 or 16 and he's slapping her on the butt telling her she's sexy. She's 4, she's adorable, he's being a daddy.
PinkButterfly66
by Emerald Member on Oct. 2, 2012 at 8:58 PM

No!  It is his child.  He is allowed to put his hands on her.  Nothing that you have described is a red flag to me.  Were you molested as a child?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 2, 2012 at 9:01 PM
Quoting Alliemad_3:

Isn't checking for squishiness how most people check to see if a diaper is wet?

he didn't check for squishiness.he pushed his hand up towards her privates so she could feel the wetness
tinkerbellbay
by Gold Member on Oct. 2, 2012 at 9:03 PM
I don't think it's a big deal
Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Oct. 2, 2012 at 9:57 PM
Yeah, he was letting her feel the wetness, not touching her privates for his own sexual gratification.




Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting Alliemad_3:

Isn't checking for squishiness how most people check to see if a diaper is wet?

he didn't check for squishiness.he pushed his hand up towards her privates so she could feel the wetness

krayzbabylove
by on Oct. 2, 2012 at 9:59 PM
No Biggie
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Oct. 2, 2012 at 10:01 PM

 Do you know how many times I've ran after my kids down the hall pinching their little buts as they run? Geez lady, you sound paranoid.

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