Hey everyone. I'm just looking for a little insight and guidance from anyone out there. My story is I was in a 16 year relationship with a guy that I knew since I was 14. WE have two kids in common. My second I had nine months ago. She came as a surprise and I was real nervous even though I was much older now than when I had my first. Fifteen minutes before my second was born he broke up with me. I was in tears but I had to get myself together to deliver. Soon after I had my second child he started to come around and it seemed as if everything was okay. Until months later he started coming over to see the kids and he would purposely pick fights with me. He would argue 24/7 over nothing. Then one day I walked outside to put my garbage out and I happened to see a car that looked like his. I live in an apartment complex so we have to walk out garbage and put it in a dumpster. So I noticed the plates were on the car were his. Then I found an email stating he had a baby with a girl in my apartment complex. Now we have 20 buildings and the sad thing is this girls building is directly across from mine. I found out what apt she lived in and confronted her. She refused to tell me anything and said I needed to talk to him. Then finally she opened the door and pointed to the baby. Iwanted to die. I confronted him and he denied it then he admitted to it. He said it was my fault he cheated. Then I found out the baby was just a week older than my child. So then I found myself in a deep depression. I lost weight and felt sick everyday. The worst part is the day I confronted the girl, shortly after I saw the both of them in the girls bedroom. My terrace faces her terrace so I can see where her bedroom is. Shortly after I called him and cursed him out. I was so mad and felt so violated. Out of anger his car got destroyed. And he called thr cops on me and had me arrested. I spent a nightin jail and now may have a felony charge over someone that is so not worth it. My fair is I may get kicked out of my apartment. I live in a beautiful apartment complex where I'm on a program that goes based on your income. Its not section8 I guess you could say its like low income housing for working people. The other annoyance is he got kicked out his moms house and now lives with the girl he cheated on me with. Now she herself is also on the program I found out by snooping. So technically he is not suppose to be living there. And in the heat of the moment he told me his drugs r stored in her apt. So now what should I do.