might be a messed up question **eta

[Anonymous]

So I have a 4 y/o DD and one on the way. I'm a planned c section so I told Dh that god forbid something happen to me during my c section I want to do a power of attorney paper so he makes any and all decisions. I mean I know its a routine c section but stuff happens you don't plan for... so I was telling my cousin this and she said what if something happens and a decision needs to be made whether to save you or the baby (only one of us can survive this hypothetical) so ladies which would you want. Save you or the baby?

*eta since everyone is saying baby I wanted to ask (I swear not judging just interested) knowing that you have other children that are still young do you feel uncomfortable at all knowing you're leaving that child/Ren motherless?

[Anonymous]

Save me. I have 4 other children who need me.

[Jimalin]

It's had for me to say I want to say the baby but I have 3 kids that already lost there dad and to know that they wouldn't have me either would make it really hard

[GreenEyePixie]

for me: the baby

dh says he would save me.

[lilbit53009]

me..i couldn't leave my other child motherless (and this child if they'd be alive if i died)

this happened to my mom. only i was the first child and it was an emergency c section. when the dr asked my dad in the event we can only save one, which one would he rather. my dad choose my mom. in the end we both made it. but i don't feel bad of what my dads "choice" was. i understand.

[mamadolce]

BUMP

[Anonymous]

This may seem heartless but if I had other kids I would want to be saved. I wouldn't want my other kids to have to live without their mom.

[nevaNabismommy]

My daughter.

[Bknotnobody]

Me.

[RobinBright]

SO would save me.  We can make another baby, he can't replace me as our kids' mom or his partner.  

[Anonymous]

I'd save myself. I have other children I have to think of as well.