CM skeptics I need your help!!! I think my friend is lying about being abused!**UPDATE** **FINAL UPDATE: MADE HER LEAVE**
***ETA*** Thank y'all for all the advice, I'm still trying to read through all the replies so if I)
haven't responded to you yet I apologize! I'll be back later today, gotta go tend to my small people:)
**FINAL.UPDATE ** Again thank you SO much for all the advice. Y'all have given me some really good ideas on how to approach this in a kind manner. If anything changes/happens I will update. **
***She has been gone all day but just came back, I was outside with the kiddos and there was a cop following her. They both get out and of course I'm like "what's going on?". She claims someone stole her IPhone today and the cop was here to file a report. So she goes in the house to get her info for Apple and the cop says "can I ask how you know her?" So I tell him about her being my old enrollment advisor and he says " Is she always like this because she seems a bit spacey." (Maybe he thought she was on drugs?) Idk but apparently she went down there demanding they find her phone because it has "evidence" on it that belongs to the DA. Its crazy stuff like this that makes her story so unbelievable, she literally just got that phone 3 days ago! DH is irate that she brought a police officer here because our kids are all asking questions now. I feel like I'm put in a position where I HAVE to talk with her ASAP.
**LAST UPDATE: MADE HER LEAVE** After the cop left, DH got home from work about 30 min later and we talked about what to do. We both agreed that even though we didn't know exactly what was going on, something wasn't right and she needed to go. We both talked to her and just said that we weren't comfortable with the situation and we thought it would be best if she found another place to go. DH kinda took over half way through the convo and used my health issues as an excuse. (Past few months had some issues due to severe stress/anxiety that caused weight loss, hair loss,etc) She took it OK it seemed, she was crying and saying she was sorry but she did leave peacefully. After she left just as a precaution, I called the police station and spoke to the officer who had been at my house earlier that evening. He basically said we did the right thing and that she did come across as "off". He didn't say flat out that he thought she was lying but he did say " if she has been a victim of domestic violence and it has been going on for this long then she should already have the resources for women in her situation". I just want to say thank you ladies so much, y'all really gave me some great advice and helped me make the right decision.