WELL Im effin pissed... My husband was STUPID Enough to leave his fb chat open on my laptop and I noticed it was a chat with a girl that he had deleted over a year ago.. yet they were still messaging???WTH??? I asked him a along time ago if they had something because she used to work for him and she would text him all the time and I had this feeling deep down so I asked just to clear my head and he swore on his life no.. well after reading there messages I find out they DID have something and were trying to rekindle it...and there date was basically our first date... OH HELL NO!!! so here I am sitting at home ALL day while he's at work and I'm with the baby and Im ready to say screw it! I dont appreciate being lied to and I feel naueious after some of the stuff I read! anty advice?? how would u handle it knowing your guy lied to you a few times bout a girl and then knew they did it and he was secretly in love w her? it's why didn't u marry her?!? or knock her up????