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Why I sleep with married men.....

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
How do I start this? While I know there will be a lot of bashing in this post, I'm simply stating why I sleep with married men your opinion really means nothing to me. I want to give you insight on why these things happen, or at least my opinion of why these things happen.

Married men have sex, married men are looking to have regular sex. When they look outside of the marriage they're looking for adventure. Alot of wives have asked why can't he get adventure at home? The answer is simple, he has had his wife and he doesn't feel as if she could feel the fantasy. He is looking to feel the passion again. With a new lover you feel the passion again.

Men like looking at pretty things. It's not to say that their wives are not pretty, sometimes the wives are knockouts. Men like looking, it's just human nature to want to procreate. As a woman it is your job/my job/a womans job to want to fulfill that need. Even if the act of procreation doesn't produce an offspring.

I don't care if a man is married. I am not the one going outside of a marriage to look for sex. I will never have on my conscience that I am the one that broke up a marriage/family. In no way, shape, or form did I have anything to do with the break up of the family unit whatever it may be. I was never a part of that family/marriage, the husband is the only guilty party. It's his fault consequence happen, if anythi does happen.

Married guys are more scared of their wives than they'll ever let on. (Unless, you have a player from the start. Then it's just a matter of time so expect it.) It's hard to catch an STD from someone who has had only one partner. You can simply tell the differen between the two when you talk to them, by the infliction in their words and their body language. I guess you could say there's a science to it.

Lastly, unless somebody brings up a point that I haven't thought of, presents, gifts and money. Sometimes none of that is ever exchanged. Believe it or not, sometimes it's just for sex. Sometimes it's for all those things, expectations are set from the begining.
Who cares?

I want to get out there this is only my opinion for a physical affair, emotional affairs are completely different. It is very easy and very plausible to separate the two, but in the same breath it is easy for the two to become one. Anything you call me or say to me is nothing that I haven't heard before.

I have been confronted by the wife, different wives, twice before. As angry as they are, they just want to know why. I tell them it is not the question I can answer because I didn't leave the marriage and angry as they are at meme they are more angry at the husband.
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:08 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:17 AM
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I agree with op on this one. No, I haven't been a mistress but I have been a wife that has been cheated on. In my opinion it's always the husbands fault. They are the ones that are looking for something different. Sometimes it can be the fault of the wife. Maybe she isn't fulfilling her duty as a wife.
Beautiful31mom
by on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:17 AM

So glad I married a man that does not step out on me and has respect for the vows he took with me.  And Fyi, you are part of the equation that broke up the marriage. 

3xangel
by *Angelicious* on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:17 AM
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One of these days you're going to mess with the wrong woman's husband and she will kick your ass or kill you. My life and safety means more to me than getting off with a married man.
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SavannahV
by Gold Member on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:17 AM
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Okay. You say its the women's job to please him. It's the man's job to please her. Cheating... Well, that's not very pleasing.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:17 AM
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Holy mother of Jesus.....this is not going to go well.
taylamill
by Tayla on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:17 AM
Mango please.

Quoting atyou:

Cool.



I'm thinking smoothies. Strawberry or mango?





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jesusismyfriend
by Platinum Member on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:17 AM
Quoting boredSAHM:



Lol. White cheddar.....????
Kaidensmom2011
by on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:18 AM
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any woman that had sex with my husband and i found out about it id kill them both
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3xangel
by *Angelicious* on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:18 AM
Were you not fulfilling your duty as a wife? Is that why your husband cheated on you?

Quoting Anonymous:

I agree with op on this one. No, I haven't been a mistress but I have been a wife that has been cheated on. In my opinion it's always the husbands fault. They are the ones that are looking for something different. Sometimes it can be the fault of the wife. Maybe she isn't fulfilling her duty as a wife.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:18 AM
no guilt, this is purely informational


Quoting Anonymous:

If you had to write such a long ass explanation to internetland you might want to rethink your "not feeling any guilt" statement.

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