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Why I sleep with married men.....

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How do I start this? While I know there will be a lot of bashing in this post, I'm simply stating why I sleep with married men your opinion really means nothing to me. I want to give you insight on why these things happen, or at least my opinion of why these things happen.

Married men have sex, married men are looking to have regular sex. When they look outside of the marriage they're looking for adventure. Alot of wives have asked why can't he get adventure at home? The answer is simple, he has had his wife and he doesn't feel as if she could feel the fantasy. He is looking to feel the passion again. With a new lover you feel the passion again.

Men like looking at pretty things. It's not to say that their wives are not pretty, sometimes the wives are knockouts. Men like looking, it's just human nature to want to procreate. As a woman it is your job/my job/a womans job to want to fulfill that need. Even if the act of procreation doesn't produce an offspring.

I don't care if a man is married. I am not the one going outside of a marriage to look for sex. I will never have on my conscience that I am the one that broke up a marriage/family. In no way, shape, or form did I have anything to do with the break up of the family unit whatever it may be. I was never a part of that family/marriage, the husband is the only guilty party. It's his fault consequence happen, if anythi does happen.

Married guys are more scared of their wives than they'll ever let on. (Unless, you have a player from the start. Then it's just a matter of time so expect it.) It's hard to catch an STD from someone who has had only one partner. You can simply tell the differen between the two when you talk to them, by the infliction in their words and their body language. I guess you could say there's a science to it.

Lastly, unless somebody brings up a point that I haven't thought of, presents, gifts and money. Sometimes none of that is ever exchanged. Believe it or not, sometimes it's just for sex. Sometimes it's for all those things, expectations are set from the begining.
Who cares?

I want to get out there this is only my opinion for a physical affair, emotional affairs are completely different. It is very easy and very plausible to separate the two, but in the same breath it is easy for the two to become one. Anything you call me or say to me is nothing that I haven't heard before.

I have been confronted by the wife, different wives, twice before. As angry as they are, they just want to know why. I tell them it is not the question I can answer because I didn't leave the marriage and angry as they are at meme they are more angry at the husband.
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:08 AM
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Dzyre1115
by Desiree` on Oct. 6, 2012 at 6:53 PM
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 Some women are worthy of marriage and family and some women are worthy to bang.....I wouldn't be content being the latter, basically being a nothing. 

Luna091306
by on Oct. 6, 2012 at 6:55 PM
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I don't think understanding why it happens lessens the blow any when it does happen. You can explain your side and the man can explain his but really it's all excuses. I don't believe this it's natural to procreate and he's bored bullshit for a min. You think the wife doesn't get bored from time to time? You think she doesn't miss the passion and spark? It's really all about self control and doing what's right. Some people just don't get that and constantly come up with reasons to justify bad desicions. But whatever.
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justpeachy71904
by peachy on Oct. 6, 2012 at 6:57 PM
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I love the misspelling in this post!

I love the confidence pouring out of this post!

I would rather be a loving wife than a one night nothing ;)
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Sheryllinn
by Bronze Member on Oct. 6, 2012 at 6:59 PM
Let us know when a bitch shoots you for it.
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momswag
by on Oct. 6, 2012 at 7:01 PM
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You didn't give any insight in this post.

I pity you more then the wives. You have zero self worth. You are nothing at all. Just a void in physical space and a vagina.

It's sad and pathetic. You should learn to love yourself.
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redneckmama4
by Loree on Oct. 6, 2012 at 7:07 PM
Yeah, my mom did it and I hated it. She had VERY low self esteem and that's why she did it. Still does and she's alone and has been for many years...very sad.

You think you speak well and can answer most questions but I see a person who doesn't respect herself and isn't respected by any of the men you sleep with.

The real women and families just pity you...you wll end up alone and just a sad mess with a ton of regrets on how you could of had a normal life...
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PurplWildFlower
by Bronze Member on Oct. 6, 2012 at 7:08 PM
I stopped at 'your opinion means nothing to me'

Spend your time finding single men, there are enough to spread your legs and open your mouth to.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 6, 2012 at 7:09 PM
Quoting Anonymous:

I would very much say I'm addicted to sex.



Is your addiction something you're proud of? Do you ever want a real relationship? Would you be able to trust a man?
breydans_mommy
by Silver Member on Oct. 6, 2012 at 7:09 PM
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Lmao. Is it weird I find this statement ironic? The tooth inspector is eating a frosting covered cinnamon roll! Ok ok it was funny to me for a minute. Carry on :-) .


Quoting Tooth_Inspector:

I'm eating a cinnamon roll!

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momswag
by on Oct. 6, 2012 at 7:10 PM
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I agree.

The OP attempted to perpetuate this image of intelligence and class but she has neither.

The poor woman needs love.


Quoting redneckmama4:

Yeah, my mom did it and I hated it. She had VERY low self esteem and that's why she did it. Still does and she's alone and has been for many years...very sad.



You think you speak well and can answer most questions but I see a person who doesn't respect herself and isn't respected by any of the men you sleep with.



The real women and families just pity you...you wll end up alone and just a sad mess with a ton of regrets on how you could of had a normal life...
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