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Why I sleep with married men.....

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How do I start this? While I know there will be a lot of bashing in this post, I'm simply stating why I sleep with married men your opinion really means nothing to me. I want to give you insight on why these things happen, or at least my opinion of why these things happen.

Married men have sex, married men are looking to have regular sex. When they look outside of the marriage they're looking for adventure. Alot of wives have asked why can't he get adventure at home? The answer is simple, he has had his wife and he doesn't feel as if she could feel the fantasy. He is looking to feel the passion again. With a new lover you feel the passion again.

Men like looking at pretty things. It's not to say that their wives are not pretty, sometimes the wives are knockouts. Men like looking, it's just human nature to want to procreate. As a woman it is your job/my job/a womans job to want to fulfill that need. Even if the act of procreation doesn't produce an offspring.

I don't care if a man is married. I am not the one going outside of a marriage to look for sex. I will never have on my conscience that I am the one that broke up a marriage/family. In no way, shape, or form did I have anything to do with the break up of the family unit whatever it may be. I was never a part of that family/marriage, the husband is the only guilty party. It's his fault consequence happen, if anythi does happen.

Married guys are more scared of their wives than they'll ever let on. (Unless, you have a player from the start. Then it's just a matter of time so expect it.) It's hard to catch an STD from someone who has had only one partner. You can simply tell the differen between the two when you talk to them, by the infliction in their words and their body language. I guess you could say there's a science to it.

Lastly, unless somebody brings up a point that I haven't thought of, presents, gifts and money. Sometimes none of that is ever exchanged. Believe it or not, sometimes it's just for sex. Sometimes it's for all those things, expectations are set from the begining.
Who cares?

I want to get out there this is only my opinion for a physical affair, emotional affairs are completely different. It is very easy and very plausible to separate the two, but in the same breath it is easy for the two to become one. Anything you call me or say to me is nothing that I haven't heard before.

I have been confronted by the wife, different wives, twice before. As angry as they are, they just want to know why. I tell them it is not the question I can answer because I didn't leave the marriage and angry as they are at meme they are more angry at the husband.
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:08 AM
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breydans_mommy
by Silver Member on Oct. 6, 2012 at 7:11 PM
Ok, as much as I do not agree with what she's doing, do your children know all about your sex life? Mine sure don't. Therefore, what I do (or anybody else for that matter) behind closed doors is not effecting my children.


Quoting littlemonaghan:

so since you are on cafemom that means you must have a child. 

Do you feel you are setting a good example and teaching good morals and values to your son/daughter?


Would you be proud if your daughter slept with married men as well?

If you have a son, would you be proud of him when he goes out and cheats on his wife?


How would you feel if your son/daughter followed in your footsteps?


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ColtsFan1912
by FriendoftheFoot on Oct. 6, 2012 at 7:13 PM

I swear there is a post like this daily.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 6, 2012 at 7:13 PM
the wifes feelings are of no importance to me


Quoting Kaybean:

So basically, since you aren't the one who's married, you simply don't care that it's wrong? You only care about yourself. Classy. Whether you're the one going outside of your marriage or not, you're still the other half of the equation. Why don't you care about the wife? Why do you need to be the one who's married in order to have respect and consideration for other people? The wife is being cheated on and will be hurt and crushed. Does that seriously not matter to you? Your parents obviously didn't raise you right, and if you're on this site, it means you're a mother as well. I bet your kids will turn out to be just as trashy and gross as you are, considering you have no morals or class.

ColtsFan1912
by FriendoftheFoot on Oct. 6, 2012 at 7:14 PM
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It sure can if they found out.
It devastated my family when we found out my mom was cheating on my dad. 

Quoting breydans_mommy:

Ok, as much as I do not agree with what she's doing, do your children know all about your sex life? Mine sure don't. Therefore, what I do (or anybody else for that matter) behind closed doors is not effecting my children.


Quoting littlemonaghan:

so since you are on cafemom that means you must have a child. 

Do you feel you are setting a good example and teaching good morals and values to your son/daughter?


Would you be proud if your daughter slept with married men as well?

If you have a son, would you be proud of him when he goes out and cheats on his wife?


How would you feel if your son/daughter followed in your footsteps?






momswag
by on Oct. 6, 2012 at 7:16 PM
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Young children may not but I assure you, teenagers/preteens typically have a notion.. Even if the parents think they do not.

Quoting breydans_mommy:

Ok, as much as I do not agree with what she's doing, do your children know all about your sex life? Mine sure don't. Therefore, what I do (or anybody else for that matter) behind closed doors is not effecting my children.




Quoting littlemonaghan:

so since you are on cafemom that means you must have a child. 

Do you feel you are setting a good example and teaching good morals and values to your son/daughter?


Would you be proud if your daughter slept with married men as well?

If you have a son, would you be proud of him when he goes out and cheats on his wife?


How would you feel if your son/daughter followed in your footsteps?


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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 6, 2012 at 7:16 PM

You sound like a sad, sad person, OP; no self-respect or self-esteem. Seek professional help, if only for your kids' sake.

Quoting Anonymous:

How do I start this? While I know there will be a lot of bashing in this post, I'm simply stating why I sleep with married men your opinion really means nothing to me. I want to give you insight on why these things happen, or at least my opinion of why these things happen.

Married men have sex, married men are looking to have regular sex. When they look outside of the marriage they're looking for adventure. Alot of wives have asked why can't he get adventure at home? The answer is simple, he has had his wife and he doesn't feel as if she could feel the fantasy. He is looking to feel the passion again. With a new lover you feel the passion again.

Men like looking at pretty things. It's not to say that their wives are not pretty, sometimes the wives are knockouts. Men like looking, it's just human nature to want to procreate. As a woman it is your job/my job/a womans job to want to fulfill that need. Even if the act of procreation doesn't produce an offspring.

I don't care if a man is married. I am not the one going outside of a marriage to look for sex. I will never have on my conscience that I am the one that broke up a marriage/family. In no way, shape, or form did I have anything to do with the break up of the family unit whatever it may be. I was never a part of that family/marriage, the husband is the only guilty party. It's his fault consequence happen, if anythi does happen.

Married guys are more scared of their wives than they'll ever let on. (Unless, you have a player from the start. Then it's just a matter of time so expect it.) It's hard to catch an STD from someone who has had only one partner. You can simply tell the differen between the two when you talk to them, by the infliction in their words and their body language. I guess you could say there's a science to it.

Lastly, unless somebody brings up a point that I haven't thought of, presents, gifts and money. Sometimes none of that is ever exchanged. Believe it or not, sometimes it's just for sex. Sometimes it's for all those things, expectations are set from the begining.
Who cares?

I want to get out there this is only my opinion for a physical affair, emotional affairs are completely different. It is very easy and very plausible to separate the two, but in the same breath it is easy for the two to become one. Anything you call me or say to me is nothing that I haven't heard before.

I have been confronted by the wife, different wives, twice before. As angry as they are, they just want to know why. I tell them it is not the question I can answer because I didn't leave the marriage and angry as they are at meme they are more angry at the husband.


Kaybean
by Ruby Member on Oct. 6, 2012 at 7:16 PM
Then you're disgusting, and your kids will be too. Your parents failed you..big time.


Quoting Anonymous:

the wifes feelings are of no importance to me




Quoting Kaybean:

So basically, since you aren't the one who's married, you simply don't care that it's wrong? You only care about yourself. Classy. Whether you're the one going outside of your marriage or not, you're still the other half of the equation. Why don't you care about the wife? Why do you need to be the one who's married in order to have respect and consideration for other people? The wife is being cheated on and will be hurt and crushed. Does that seriously not matter to you? Your parents obviously didn't raise you right, and if you're on this site, it means you're a mother as well. I bet your kids will turn out to be just as trashy and gross as you are, considering you have no morals or class.


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mcclainprincess
by on Oct. 6, 2012 at 7:17 PM

Tell yourself whatever you have to to get to sleep at night i guess..  smh..  

redneckmama4
by Loree on Oct. 6, 2012 at 7:17 PM
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What...are children only senseless babies???

My mom did the same thing and you bet your sweet ass I knew and HATED it and it sickened me.

EVERYTHING you do effects your children...whether you choose to be oblivious or not.


Quoting breydans_mommy:

Ok, as much as I do not agree with what she's doing, do your children know all about your sex life? Mine sure don't. Therefore, what I do (or anybody else for that matter) behind closed doors is not effecting my children.




Quoting littlemonaghan:

so since you are on cafemom that means you must have a child. 

Do you feel you are setting a good example and teaching good morals and values to your son/daughter?


Would you be proud if your daughter slept with married men as well?

If you have a son, would you be proud of him when he goes out and cheats on his wife?


How would you feel if your son/daughter followed in your footsteps?


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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 6, 2012 at 7:19 PM

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