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Why I sleep with married men.....

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
How do I start this? While I know there will be a lot of bashing in this post, I'm simply stating why I sleep with married men your opinion really means nothing to me. I want to give you insight on why these things happen, or at least my opinion of why these things happen.

Married men have sex, married men are looking to have regular sex. When they look outside of the marriage they're looking for adventure. Alot of wives have asked why can't he get adventure at home? The answer is simple, he has had his wife and he doesn't feel as if she could feel the fantasy. He is looking to feel the passion again. With a new lover you feel the passion again.

Men like looking at pretty things. It's not to say that their wives are not pretty, sometimes the wives are knockouts. Men like looking, it's just human nature to want to procreate. As a woman it is your job/my job/a womans job to want to fulfill that need. Even if the act of procreation doesn't produce an offspring.

I don't care if a man is married. I am not the one going outside of a marriage to look for sex. I will never have on my conscience that I am the one that broke up a marriage/family. In no way, shape, or form did I have anything to do with the break up of the family unit whatever it may be. I was never a part of that family/marriage, the husband is the only guilty party. It's his fault consequence happen, if anythi does happen.

Married guys are more scared of their wives than they'll ever let on. (Unless, you have a player from the start. Then it's just a matter of time so expect it.) It's hard to catch an STD from someone who has had only one partner. You can simply tell the differen between the two when you talk to them, by the infliction in their words and their body language. I guess you could say there's a science to it.

Lastly, unless somebody brings up a point that I haven't thought of, presents, gifts and money. Sometimes none of that is ever exchanged. Believe it or not, sometimes it's just for sex. Sometimes it's for all those things, expectations are set from the begining.
Who cares?

I want to get out there this is only my opinion for a physical affair, emotional affairs are completely different. It is very easy and very plausible to separate the two, but in the same breath it is easy for the two to become one. Anything you call me or say to me is nothing that I haven't heard before.

I have been confronted by the wife, different wives, twice before. As angry as they are, they just want to know why. I tell them it is not the question I can answer because I didn't leave the marriage and angry as they are at meme they are more angry at the husband.
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:08 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:21 AM
its not my problem if he is married. I have nothing to do with a marriage


Quoting Anonymous:

In no way, shape, or form did I have anything to do with the break up of the family unit whatever it may be.

But you did knowing that you were sleeping with a married Man makes you just as gulity.

Karma is a BITCH! 


littlemonaghan
by Gold Member on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:22 AM
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so since you are on cafemom that means you must have a child. 

Do you feel you are setting a good example and teaching good morals and values to your son/daughter?


Would you be proud if your daughter slept with married men as well?

If you have a son, would you be proud of him when he goes out and cheats on his wife?


How would you feel if your son/daughter followed in your footsteps?

boredSAHM
by on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:22 AM

sure lol. on a random note I like your SN.

Quoting jesusismyfriend:

Quoting boredSAHM:



Lol. White cheddar.....????


littlemonaghan
by Gold Member on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:22 AM

karma is a bitch. a really big one.  what does around comes around..

Quoting Anonymous:

its not my problem if he is married. I have nothing to do with a marriage


Quoting Anonymous:

In no way, shape, or form did I have anything to do with the break up of the family unit whatever it may be.

But you did knowing that you were sleeping with a married Man makes you just as gulity.

Karma is a BITCH! 



Crashmonster1
by Bronze Member on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:22 AM
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Im with you on the physical/emotional affair part.  I would be upset over a physical affair but a mental affair would cause more of a breakdown of the marriage.  Anyways I agree with pretty much everything you said so no bashing from me.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:23 AM

The way you post almost sounds like the OP yesterday who only cheated on her husband once. Whatever floats your boat. You want my ex-husband, have at him.

MamaRae85
by *you're on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:23 AM
Quoting atyou:

Cool.

I'm thinking smoothies. Strawberry or mango?


Mix those bad boys together!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:23 AM
sometimes it's not even the wife's fault. sometimes it's purely the husband


Quoting 3xangel:

Were you not fulfilling your duty as a wife? Is that why your husband cheated on you?



Quoting Anonymous:

I agree with op on this one. No, I haven't been a mistress but I have been a wife that has been cheated on. In my opinion it's always the husbands fault. They are the ones that are looking for something different. Sometimes it can be the fault of the wife. Maybe she isn't fulfilling her duty as a wife.

MrsErdos2011
by on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:23 AM
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The OW doesn't really have anything to do with it.  If a man has the intent on cheating, he is going to cheat no matter who it's with.  The thought is just as bad as the action because the man has already mentally and emotionally left the marriage even if it's not yet physical.

Quoting Anonymous:

Lol @you had nothing to do with the break up of a marriage. Ok


I may not be a perfect wife or mother but I am perfect in the eyes of my son and my husband and that is all that matters.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:23 AM
Strawberry pls!! :)

Quoting atyou:

Cool.



I'm thinking smoothies. Strawberry or mango?





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