Dh told me to use it on anything I wanted because I did the work (his boss is fully aware I'm doing it) but he wanted to borrow a little until he got paid which was yesterday. Well, when he made the deposit earlier this week it was $100 less than the check, then be spent double what he said he would. Well, yesterday I asked about the money and he said he forgot he had a repair bill that needed to be paid (he handles the machanic stuff) so he doesn't have it.
He knew all week that the plan was to go get the tattoo I've been planning for 2 freaking years. I know it's only a tattoo hut I was looking forward to it and I'm pissed. I'm still talking to dh but I'm just too pissed to act like I normally do. Now he's pissed and thinks I'm over reacting. Of course he the one that already got what he wanted.
And before anyone says it. We do have money in the bank. In an account I refuse to touch for stuff like this. We are ok, we aren't taking from our kids or anything. That's why this bothers me so much. I never do for myself because there is always something that takes the extra money we have.
I don't think I was clear. The repair bill is almost a month old for his vehicle, I knew nothing about it but when he said the money was mine and I said I was scheduling for a tattoo and he asked me to wait until he got paid he knew he owned the money. So I waited for pay day and now he doesn't have the extra e promised but he has the nice new bow and new hunting gear. It's not the repair bills that piss me off, it's that he promised me something he knew he couldn't give. He got something from the bonus we both know I earned.