Years ago when I was single I had a guy who I had ben fwb for a long time. After seeing each other for a while, out of the blue he would have me meet him at his apartment (he gave me a key) and he would tell me to take a shower while I waited for him. We had known each other for seventeen years at this point in time and it felt like an insult. Not that it sounded like an insult coming from him, but the content of the message is insulting. I am a clean person and always have been. I do not stink and never have. And I always showered before seeing him. Would you be offended? Or do you think that I was blowing things out of proportion?