*UPDATE2* Update page 24. My gut feeling was right, i am so numb I probably shouldnt post this....would you assume he is cheating?

[Anonymous]

Okay so dh works with his dad doing heating and air. His dad doesn't like me because I am Hispanic. Anywho last night he stayed working until 11 at night (a place that is 2 hours from home), mind you in someone's house. He doesn't work weekends but went in today to work on the same persons house. I told him last night over a text that I was surprised that someone would allow them in their home this late at night. He said well they have no heat, okay I could understand that. But what furnace takes 2 days to do. He said it was just a swap out. I also told him if he is going to cheat to just let me know, I will walk away without a fight. He started yelling at me that the one who accuses is the cheater. I'm a sahm and talk to no one other than my children. He has barely text me today, and usually he will txt to check on us or just to talk. I have this gut feeling that something is not right. I feel like packing the kids and I up and leaving. Would you suspect something? Or am I over reacting?

UPDATE

Well ladies, I was right. A girl tagged him in her check in on Facebook. They were at a bar, I wrote have fun with a married man. I sent him a text not to come home. He said what are you talking about? The check in status was deleted. I will be leaving to my parents tomorrow. Thank goodness I have a education, I will be applying for job asap. I am so numb! I told him I will walk away without and fight and that's what I will be doing. He has been trying to call me but I will not be answering. I hope that girl is strong enough to put up with his bullshit. I kept thinking I was stupid for even questioning his cheating, something in my heart said something was not right... Thank you for responding ladies, I wish you all were right :(

ETA: Thank you for the hugs and supportive words. I am going to finish putting things into my car in case he shows up here tonight and I have to leave. My mom is on here way so thankfully I will have someone here for me. I will update tomorrow once we are out of the house. Good night ladies.

Small update
I want to up date quickly before going to register my kids in school. He admitted to it all in hopes that I would come back why? I don't know I'm not stupid. I am filing for divorce today. My youngest misses his dad but my oldest not at all, he was saw the way his dad treated me. I haven't told them why we have left, I will never talk down about their dad. I am ready for this to be over with,I think he will try to delay the divorce as much as he can. Sorry I'm all over the place I'm trying to get out as much as I can before I have to leave. To those of you still calling ME childish for leaving a cheating scum, Fuck off!

[CheesyKitty]

Simple way to figure this one out, cheaters don't get paid for their time.

[lilbit04]

What I have learned is always listen to your gut feeling.

[SweetDea]

He is cheating...banging 50 women on the side..honestly i think you just want out of the relationship..

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

How crazy lol. We have been fighting a lot because his dad pays him whenever he feels like it. My dh has dad problems, his dad was shitty when he was younger. So he seems scared to tell him anything.

Quoting jessi2girls:

lol actually I'm talking to my friend via facebook IM and his heater broke yesterday.. it's 8pm.. and the guys suppose to get there in the next half hour.. right after he typed that, and I asked him why so late.. I openned this! lol.

So I guess at times they do come later.. with my friend it's because his landlord was the one that had to call.. and he (landlord) booked the time frame..

IDK if you are over reacting or not, you know your husband better than I.. but at times, people really are working late.

[indyb]

I think you might be overreacting just a tad bit,  once our heat went out once  and we had to get a whole new unit and it took about two days to get it all done,  why did you automatically assume cheating?

[Kaya529]

Maybe the father is setting him up to try and start crap.

[peaches_04]

Def over reacting

[justpeachy71904]

Chill out. Really. Why jump to that conclusion? Give your man a break. You will push him to it if you keep acting like that. Trust me

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Dang it I just ment to respond to you and clicked on someone else. Does $80 a day seem about right for 13+ hours in this job field?

Quoting kjfamily:

My dh does Hvac side jobs a lot. Every job and situation is different , they never know what they will run into. when dealing with heaters, they stay till its running especially if its cold out. Chill out and be happy he is out making extra money.

[Anonymous]

Well now i'm sure some of them get paid!

Quoting CheesyKitty:

Simple way to figure this one out, cheaters don't get paid for their time.