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*UPDATE2* Update page 24. My gut feeling was right, i am so numb I probably shouldnt post this....would you assume he is cheating?

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Okay so dh works with his dad doing heating and air. His dad doesn't like me because I am Hispanic. Anywho last night he stayed working until 11 at night (a place that is 2 hours from home), mind you in someone's house. He doesn't work weekends but went in today to work on the same persons house. I told him last night over a text that I was surprised that someone would allow them in their home this late at night. He said well they have no heat, okay I could understand that. But what furnace takes 2 days to do. He said it was just a swap out. I also told him if he is going to cheat to just let me know, I will walk away without a fight. He started yelling at me that the one who accuses is the cheater. I'm a sahm and talk to no one other than my children. He has barely text me today, and usually he will txt to check on us or just to talk. I have this gut feeling that something is not right. I feel like packing the kids and I up and leaving. Would you suspect something? Or am I over reacting?


Well ladies, I was right. A girl tagged him in her check in on Facebook. They were at a bar, I wrote have fun with a married man. I sent him a text not to come home. He said what are you talking about? The check in status was deleted. I will be leaving to my parents tomorrow. Thank goodness I have a education, I will be applying for job asap. I am so numb! I told him I will walk away without and fight and that's what I will be doing. He has been trying to call me but I will not be answering. I hope that girl is strong enough to put up with his bullshit. I kept thinking I was stupid for even questioning his cheating, something in my heart said something was not right... Thank you for responding ladies, I wish you all were right :(

ETA: Thank you for the hugs and supportive words. I am going to finish putting things into my car in case he shows up here tonight and I have to leave. My mom is on here way so thankfully I will have someone here for me. I will update tomorrow once we are out of the house. Good night ladies.

Small update
I want to up date quickly before going to register my kids in school. He admitted to it all in hopes that I would come back why? I don't know I'm not stupid. I am filing for divorce today. My youngest misses his dad but my oldest not at all, he was saw the way his dad treated me. I haven't told them why we have left, I will never talk down about their dad. I am ready for this to be over with,I think he will try to delay the divorce as much as he can. Sorry I'm all over the place I'm trying to get out as much as I can before I have to leave. To those of you still calling ME childish for leaving a cheating scum, Fuck off!
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 6, 2012 at 7:56 PM
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by Anonymous 32 on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:46 AM
by Platinum Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:48 AM
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Hugs sweetie. I totally understand. Me and my boy's father just split last week. I left the house with them. It sucks, it hurts, but it is what it is. I am now living back with my parents and I'm having a hard time dealing with it all, but really what broken heart is easily mended? I can say though we are civil towards each other for the kids. And I told him he can see them whenever he wants. He is a great dad and they didn't ask for this. :'(
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by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:50 AM

Good luck mama on your new journey. I wish you the best!

Been in your shoes before, and it is very hard to walk away. But it will get better!

by Platinum Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:53 AM
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by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:54 AM
good luck and imo you did the right thing. :-)
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by Anonymous 33 on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:56 AM
Good luck, I went through it a few months ago, though he never fully admitted it.. it's been hard.. not taking him back when he says he loves me and blah blah... Or when he sees our son and now wants to be so into my pregnancy feeling my stomach and asking how I'm feeling when he never even did it while we were together.. stay strong, because it may get a lot harder like it has for me..
by Anonymous 34 on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:57 AM
divorce is such a long and awful road, but worth it! good luck! hugs!
by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:58 AM
:( sorry you found out he was cheating but great that your keeping your head up and moving forward
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by Silver Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:59 AM

I don't blame  you, I would leave too, Good Luck to you!! Hugs

by Silver Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:01 AM
I'm sorry. I hope things get better for you.
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