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*UPDATE2* Update page 24. My gut feeling was right, i am so numb I probably shouldnt post this....would you assume he is cheating?

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Okay so dh works with his dad doing heating and air. His dad doesn't like me because I am Hispanic. Anywho last night he stayed working until 11 at night (a place that is 2 hours from home), mind you in someone's house. He doesn't work weekends but went in today to work on the same persons house. I told him last night over a text that I was surprised that someone would allow them in their home this late at night. He said well they have no heat, okay I could understand that. But what furnace takes 2 days to do. He said it was just a swap out. I also told him if he is going to cheat to just let me know, I will walk away without a fight. He started yelling at me that the one who accuses is the cheater. I'm a sahm and talk to no one other than my children. He has barely text me today, and usually he will txt to check on us or just to talk. I have this gut feeling that something is not right. I feel like packing the kids and I up and leaving. Would you suspect something? Or am I over reacting?


Well ladies, I was right. A girl tagged him in her check in on Facebook. They were at a bar, I wrote have fun with a married man. I sent him a text not to come home. He said what are you talking about? The check in status was deleted. I will be leaving to my parents tomorrow. Thank goodness I have a education, I will be applying for job asap. I am so numb! I told him I will walk away without and fight and that's what I will be doing. He has been trying to call me but I will not be answering. I hope that girl is strong enough to put up with his bullshit. I kept thinking I was stupid for even questioning his cheating, something in my heart said something was not right... Thank you for responding ladies, I wish you all were right :(

ETA: Thank you for the hugs and supportive words. I am going to finish putting things into my car in case he shows up here tonight and I have to leave. My mom is on here way so thankfully I will have someone here for me. I will update tomorrow once we are out of the house. Good night ladies.

Small update
I want to up date quickly before going to register my kids in school. He admitted to it all in hopes that I would come back why? I don't know I'm not stupid. I am filing for divorce today. My youngest misses his dad but my oldest not at all, he was saw the way his dad treated me. I haven't told them why we have left, I will never talk down about their dad. I am ready for this to be over with,I think he will try to delay the divorce as much as he can. Sorry I'm all over the place I'm trying to get out as much as I can before I have to leave. To those of you still calling ME childish for leaving a cheating scum, Fuck off!
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 6, 2012 at 7:56 PM
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by Member on Oct. 9, 2012 at 10:48 PM

OP I hope you and your children are doing better and settling with your parents.  It's great you have a place to go.  My Mom died when I was 12, Thank God she never knew my ex.  Lean on your parents until you are stronger.  Please do not let him back into your lives.  I made that mistake and lost 8 years of my life, always wondering and caught him time and time again.  I finally could not live that way and what it was doing to my daughter.  She was the one who actually pointed out some things that I was just caring to see.

Our (daughter and I) lives are so much better.  I won't lie, it was hard and there were times I thought I would rather die than feel the pain, but take it one day at a time, and you will get through it.  Praying for you to get the job and starting on a NEW journey to your new life.  {{{HUGS}}}

by on Oct. 9, 2012 at 11:01 PM
Sorry guess I was wrong after all . I told you to smell him I was half joking.

Quoting Yourmansgirl:

FIRST OFF GIRLFRIEND relax im a plumbers daughter (hvac) and also just recently had my heating system swapped out it took them from 8 a.m. Until 11 pm that same nite between waitin for supply truck and disassembling carryin out the old system hauling in the new system and then hooking it up. And they came back the next day to hook up the hotwater heater & run all the necessary tests took another few hours. So i doubt he is cheating but you can always rip his pants off and smell him for another womans scent lol that last part was joke.

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by Gold Member on Oct. 10, 2012 at 10:02 AM

You deserve so much better!!!  ((HUGS))

by on Oct. 12, 2012 at 6:01 PM
I'm so sorry!
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